If I am introduce myself to a new group of male and female college students (I am myself a college student), then a beautiful girl(friend of them) just joins the group. I want to introduce myself to her. She does not speak a word at me. I cant just ask her "What is your name?" because that is how I entered the group, asking many of them "What is your name?" "Where do you live?". So what can I ask her to just begin her to speak with me? Please advice such suggestions that does not picture myself as eager to talk to her in front of the whole group. I am also not very bold to speak some brave words. I just want to begin the conversation. Moreover can you suggest lines to enter in a new unfamiliar group that doesn't seem boring lines like asking name, etc. Please advice.

Ignore her and keep talking with the rest of the group. Refer to her indirectly if you can lend the conversation to it... "speaking of ______, your friend over here is ________..." and then continue the group conversation. At that point, either someone will introduce her into the conversation, or it will just continue with no introduction. Also, playful teases (aka negs) toward her in conversation with the rest of the group can both liven the conversation and increase her interest in you. All in all, don't worry about it too much.

The best openers I ever used were mostly statements and almost always truths. "Those are some killer tattoos." "Rocking the chucks and a skirt look, I see." "Damn, it looks like tonight is Freshman night at this bar." "Hi Five." "That is the most unique-looking drink I have seen in the last five minutes." "I see you like IPAs." Get present to what is happening. Make a statement rather than asking a question. Asking a question is like giving someone a flyer - now they have to figure out what to do with it. Making a statement invites them to converse and gives them some initial subject to follow up, if they are so inclined.

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