Hi,

I have recently started frequenting night clubs and i find that some women are very receptive to grinding etc, most of the time I see guys directly trying to dance/grinding with little to no interaction. I dont get it are you supposed to approach and talk to women and game them or are you just supposed to go grind on them and hope they want the same thing. Also the music is very loud and the single women near the dance floor are just looking to dance/grind maybe I am wrong. I just want to know, why do single women come to night clubs how loose are they? do they not even want to talk before grinding ?? what should be my approach? I personally dont even want to grind since it is does'nt usually lead anywhere for me
Also i see some puas suggesting Dont ask a girl to dance, I dont see what is wrong with asking a girl to dance do any of you?
Thanks in advance

There is little to no value in dancing. As you've already experienced, it doesn't get you closer to your goal (though it sometimes feels nice to have her grinding on you). Realize that when she grinds on you, she is disqualifying you from sleeping with her (generally) because you are validating her too much

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Yeah I see guys grinding up on girls all the time at the club. Most guys don't study PUA material and don't have much game. For them it is easy to just grind some girls then move on. Personally I don't like night club game too much but I still go on occasion. I find this is where girls dress most provocatively. A lot of clubs have the bar area a bit away from the dance floor where the music isn't blasting so much, which is a good place to pull a girl to talk. I'll start dancing and shit with a girl on the floor and be pulling some heavy kino, then say I'm thirsty let's head to the bar real quick for a drink. From there jump into attraction or qualification and see where it goes. If I'm not feeling her too much I'll tap her on the shoulder and move on to another girl to see if she's worthy to isolate.

Thanks...I guess I have to try really hard to talk to and isolate girls in the club, I guess dancing grinding is easy that is why I did it, gonna put some effort in now.