I have no problem at all approaching a girl on her own, but I do have little problem (Anexiety) when approaching a group of girls, still no problem I think I can handle that too.

But I have specific situations where I'm so desperate to make an approach but I CAN NOT. It drives me crazy and I might need some of your innovative ideas Gentlemen. To sum up these situations;

1- A hot chick on her own walking down the street / mall but she is on the phone for long minutes in an intense conversation.

2- At the traffic signal on a busy road with both of our windows roled up (because the air conditioner is ON usually on most times of the year in here).

3- If she is busy interacting with the sales person for almost an hour.

4- The ONLY time I feel I cant approach a girl say in a cafe is when the place is too quiet and there are some hopeless lonley men staring at the poor girl (without doing anything ofcourse) So I feel that it is a little bit embarrasing for her if I approach her in such a situation.

Please help me if you have any slip throughs for such situations. Any ideas, suggestions are welcome indeed.

The most important thing about going up to a group of girls is that you have to have CONFIDENCE. I know it's basic, but put yourself in their shoes. If a guy were to approach you with all your friends he better have something good to say to make us laugh before we all judge that he's a creep. Thats why you should run a routine on one of them. A simple one is from Mystery Method, walk by the girls like you don't even notice them, choose the hottest girl of the group, that should naturally be your target because you're about to DHV. Now turn your head to them, not your body. Say hey, I've been practicing this new magic trick lately, would you mind if I show you girls what it is? They will be intrigued, when they say yes! you now turn your body language towards them. Say I'm on a timely schedule, but here we go. Tell the girl to stand up, close her eyes, put her hands in yours, you then turn her around where she is standing where you were, let go of her hands and sit in her seat and start talking to her friends, like casual, so girls how are you guys doing today? The girl will naturally open her own eyes. Well the point is now your sitting at the table and are making the girl stand up and look dumb, your running the set and you just made a huge DHV. Introduce yourself and tell them I guess I can stay a little bit longer, do you mind if I join. They will say yes because you just made them laugh and you have been socially calibrated by them. Neg the target a few times, not too harsh because you already have her friends interested. Tell stories, so on, by the end you should be able to number close, there you go. Win the Group, Win the Girl. Good Luck

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PuzZled

There's a time and a place for approaching and opening. You need to have common sense dude.

Your four issues are stupid and lack common sense. These are situations where women just wouldn't want to interact with you and when you shouldn't consider it.

For groups of women just open with an opinion opener.

With all respect to your opinion bro...Sorry. I have no sense when it comes to this matter. I try to kill my mathematician common sense and think with my dong instead.

For the phone: I interrupt and ask her to put it off.

For the crowded cafe I have figured it out.

For the sales person i'm still trying to sort it out.

"Common sense" doesn't get you laid and doesn't make you great in life or in any sport or hobby.

Good Luck