My mind keeps going blank when I'm around women I fancy. Is this normal? If so what's the solution. I like a woman but she's like an advisor at a recruitment agency for finding work. This is at college. I see her all the time but only in passing. Unless I have a reason to go see these 2 ladies about work vacancies (but it's not really her I see, it's the other woman typically) then I don't have a reason to start a conversation with her. I have or did have a good rappour with her when I have had to see her (cause the othe lady wasn't there). Think she knows I fancy her now as I can hardly take my eyes off her. So what do I do, 'cause my mind goes blank whenever I see her and it's becoming a nightmare now lol!

practice sayign things in the mirror....one HUGE reason why guys feel uncomfortable approaching girls is because they fell they look weird doing it....if you practice in the mirror you'll not only have memorize what you want to say but you'll be more comfortable about what you look like saying it......if you're still not comfortable thien practice approaching other girls who are maybe less attractive

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie

I don't think I look weird when I approach girls. Mine is unsure what to say and nerves. I have often wondered what ir would be like to see what I look like from another persons perspective, as I'm a very self conscious person and have often thought it would be an invaluable learning experience to do so. I'd probably learn tons about myself, and probably would change a few things in my persona to come across more confident, sure and cool.

thats what practicing infront of the mirror does lol

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"My understanding of women only goes as far as the pleasure. When it comes to the pain I'm like any other bloke - I don't want to know."-Alfie