After a few weeks of testing this opener it's worked EVERY time I've tried it so I'm left to think it's "golden". It has many variations and you really should just say it in your own words yet still I'll tell you the concept and what I've said and what the follow up is and how it's worked for me.

At a bar I see a cute girl on her computer with blue hair. I order a drink and walk over to her and say "Hey, I thought you were cute so I figured I'd try to get to know you."
her: *smile* Thanks. I'm busy doing work at the moment so I can't talk right now.
me: Okay, maybe we'll chat later *smile* *turn to walk away*[if only to signify I understand she's busy doing something important but I'd still like to chat later]
Her: Sounds good *smiles*

Time passes. I'm on my 3rd beer now and I'm outside on the porch smoking a cigarette. I have made no attempt whatsoever to talk to her since just then. During the passage of time I did glance over at her a few times and she did look up and smile but I was also talking to other people. One guy I was telling about my ceramic "tobacco" pipes I custom make and he wanted to buy one. This other dude was talking about video games with me. It was mostly guys in there.

So while I'm out smoking a cigarette she comes outside to smoke a cigarette too and says "Hey, I'm Jessica" and extends her hand out. I shake her hand and say "I'm Nick. What were you working on over there?" She says "Oh.... just a job interview." giving the impression she doesn't care to talk about it so I retort "I like your hair, I'm thinking of dying my red actually." and she says "Thanks *smile* what do you like to do? Tell me about yourself."

Well we continue to talk and eventually we exchange phone numbers.


Another time I'm at a hot dog place downtown ordering a coney dog. The girl who rings me up is pretty cute so I say "Hey, I think you're pretty cute so I'd like to get to know you." She smiles and says "Thank you. I'm busy at the moment though." I say "Can I add you on facebook and we'll chat later *smile*" and she pulls out her smart phone and sends me a friend request on facebook. I eat my hot dog and tell her to have a good night when I leave and she says "You as well, I'm looking forward to getting to know you better *smile*"

And another time while at a club in the smoking room a cute red head is there and I say "Hello, I'm Nick *smile*" and extend my hand out. She shakes my hand and says "Hi, Nick, I'm Carly." I say "You're pretty cute Carly so I figured I'd get to know you. What do you like to do for fun?" She blushes and says "You seem like a rather sweet guy *smile*. I like to do art blah blah blah" and I ask a few questions about art and mention the kind of art I like and somewhere in here she asks for my phone number.


I feel I don't need to place another example.
The premise of this opener is that you're not doing anything over the top at all. Some of those days i was dressed like a complete scrub and not peacocking for shit. This opener has always worked when I've used it in terms of a conversation happens somewhere in there. I don't get any negative responses. The Closest I've gotten to that was down the road into the conversation she mentioned she had a boyfriend but she didn't mention this during the opener it was only after.


What I'm saying is you don't actually have to do much to get girl to talk. Just smile and say you thought she was cute and wanted to get to know her.

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nice!!!! This is exactly what I mean. Stop the b.s. opinion openers. If you are self-confident enough, you can simply approach her directly.

Very similar to what I do. I say "Hey, You're cute, I'm bored so we are going to talk for a little".
I change the "I'm bored" up sometimes. Even with getting her number, when I see their phone out I say " I see you have a phone, (pull out my phone) Look at that I have a phone too. What you're going to do is give me your number and I'll text something awesome."

PMSL. So you actually say they're cute and that you're bored so we are GOING to talk for a little. Who the fuck are you to tell her what is GOING to happen you jumped up little fuck wit. We are GOING to talk. The next time you say that I hope she punches your patronising fucking face in. Christ you guys are fucking hopeless and as for that Brad jerk telling you all, no SCREAMING at you to persist, persist, persist it's like some form of fucking bullying or something to wear the poor girl down so you can get what you fucking want. What kind of fucking advice is that? Keep at her, keep persisting, don't take no for an answer, keep persisting, don't let her walk away, keep persisting, keep at her, don't let her leave, keep persisting blah blah fucking blah.

And you all believe that crap which shows how fucking dumb you are. No wonder you all get nowhere when you listen to that deranged asshole's advice. Why not just fucking beat her and drag her to your cave you fucking desperate losers. If anything girls don't like to be cornered by some fucking cunt who won't take no for an answer.

I also fucking love how he went to a SWANKY bar and got fucking rejected over and fucking over again so decides his great plan of action is to fucking bully them into getting something from them. Persist, persist persist. Yeh dude keep doing that and you'll end up in jail with an harassment offence you fucking dickhead. Persist, persist, persist. Omg I'm so desperate to get laid. Persist persist persist. Christ that must be the most pathetic thing EVER to do and if you had a fucking conscience you'd go home and look in the mirror and see a fucking desperate needy cunt staring back at you. SWANKY bar. Ha ha. The women put him in his fucking place that's for sure so he had to wear them fucking down to get anywhere. That is fucking classic!! What a fucking loser.

That's actually very cool Chime ! I NEVER liked opinion openers as they always sound so fake, especially when they are not related to your surroundings. I'm sure they work when the delivery is good, but I don't want to have to make up fake stories to be interesting. Plus there's no way to get ''caught'' by repeating the exact same line as it's completely genuine.

It may not work at all times but it's straight forward and real, I like it ! Plus there's no need for transitionning as you go directly to ''tell me more about yourself'', and it's congruent with the opener.

The only downside would be that you show interest directly, and I don't have enough field experience to tell if it's so bad.

I have seen three threads with digital spy just ragging on everything. Last i checked being an arsehole 24/7 does not get you laid, bit hit and miss. but hey lets just rag on everyone and not learn anything, being a know it all who just takes the arsehole negative act is not going to progress your game. keep up the AFC performances digital spy...

as for your game, this is gambler's natural technique. he reiterates how little he has to do because he seems so natural, he does not have to try hard. look him up on youtube to check out a few of his videos if this is the game that you like to take on.

cheers!

Love this. Direct and to the point. Gonna give it a try. As for spy, you're a joke, we're talking about a direct opener, your tangent is irrelevant to this post.

As an avid fan of direct game, I can attest to it's effectiveness. Glad it suits you, keep it up!

Digital Spy is a dickhead. I wish mod's would ban the fucker already...

Personally I find it so natural to say the opener: "Hey, I thought you were cute so I figured I'd try to get to know you." - A no bullshit approach that works in any practically all settings.

Guys if you're thinking about your routines and lines too much just give this one a go and try to hold an interesting conversation... A lot of the time chicks just want "that special person" in their life, a guy that genuinely wants to make a lady friend and one that isn't a gamer. Give it a go! And its not like a 3 second rule either just have the balls to say "Hi, you seem cool (or you're cute) and I wanted to say hello, whats your name?"