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| alphabet123 | PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 1:10 am | |
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Posts: 5 | | I usually do a direct opener now. So, here is my problem. I cannot tell whether the set is just testing me or if am just really being creepy. How do I know that I should stop and eject from my set.
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| Michelangelo87 | PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 11:54 am | |
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Posts: 25 | | I think it will all come down to experience and being able to assess the situation you are in. What direct openers are you using and what reactions are they getting? If they are are open and engaging in conversation with you and their body language is positive then it should be fine. However, if they have negative body language are reserving themselves then I'd assess your opener and how you're doing it.
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| Stockmeister | PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 7:18 pm | |
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Posts: 30 | | As long as they are smiling you should never give up. It might be possible that they will directly s. test you, but that would also depend on the women and the opener. If you have the feeling they s. test you just talk right over it. Don't defend yourself, there's no need for that. And real easy; if the vibe isn't right and after a while you've had it, open up a new set.
What openers do you use?
For how long have you been doing this?
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| IcingFate | PostPosted: Fri Mar 14, 2014 7:59 am | |
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Posts: 33 | | I think you can tell just by looking at the vibe youre giving off. You have to have a relaxed presence. Whenever you're with someone (for whatever reason) your feelings will often match theirs. So if by talking for a couple minutes you feel like things are awkward, they will have that same feeling too. Likewise, if you feel fine and great and smooth, they will feel that same way about you as well. Looking into your own vibe and how your feeling in the conversation will go a long way
Confidence and relaxation is noticeable to everyone.
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| TheFury | PostPosted: Fri Mar 14, 2014 5:22 pm | |
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Posts: 1707 | | I wrote an article about things that are generally creepy on my site .. in the sig, search for "creepy" _________________ http://www.joshsway.com -- dating, online dating, fitness, fashion, and more...
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| Vincenity | PostPosted: Tue Mar 18, 2014 11:21 pm | |
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Posts: 40 | | As long as they are laughing/smiling never eject! Also if they are rooted on the spot instead of trying to walk away, they're generally waiting to see what you have to offer. There are tons of other body language cues that you could read to gain insight on this matter such as legs pointing towards as opposed to away from you and crossed arms versus open ones.
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| Vincenity | PostPosted: Tue Mar 18, 2014 11:22 pm | |
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Posts: 40 | | As long as they are laughing/smiling never eject! Also if they are rooted on the spot instead of trying to walk away, they're generally waiting to see what you have to offer. There are tons of other body language cues that you could read to gain insight on this matter such as legs pointing towards as opposed to away from you and crossed arms versus open ones.
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