Okay, so here's the deal.

I have a pretty cool fuck buddy (HB8.5 who does nude modeling) and I told her I wanted to bring another girl into bed with us. She's bi, and agreed to the idea of "girl-shopping" to find another girl to join us.

How do I approach girls in bars and clubs with my fuck buddy and convince them to come home with us? Should I just let her talk to the girls for me, since I feel like a girl would be more likely to say yes to another girl?

Or should I approach girls alone, and then introduce them to my fuck buddy?

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Never had the pleasure of finding a girl that was really into the threesome thing, but I've always heard that it's way better to let her strike up a convo and then you come in and join rather than you go out hunting for a girl yourself.

Hi Zack!

I had a threesome last year. I had a fuckbuddy (an ex-girlfriend) and told her I want to have a threesome. She said, it's okay, she invited her best chick for a night. Does you fuckbuddy has anyone she could invite? Or you wanna have sex with a total stranger? If I were you, I would have 2 ideas:
- walk up to a girl and say exactly what you want.
- invite a bisex girl, and drink alcohol three together. in the night
It sounds simple, but it works if you keep it simple. Maybe your fuckbuddy should talk to the target first. She could introduce you as an alpha male.
This is just my opinion.
Alex

Alex, i am interested in your whole story how you got two women. Can you tell me what did you say to your fuckybuddy and when? I have a girlfriend but Idon't know how to tell her what Iwant. I am afraid of being rejected... maybe she will dump me. But I know she is bisex. thx your help!

Hi Riversalty!

Yeah, I let U know the whole story later! Now I gotta go.
bye

You don't have to do anything. Just go out with her to a "gay-friendly" club and she can handle it from there.

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I had a situation similar to Alex here, but full disclaimer, alcohol both escalated and destroyed the night. There was no intention of it even happening going in. Which I think actually helped get it going. I went over this girl's house, her best friend was already there. I brought some booze with me, and we were just hanging out having fun. The one girl was chatting on a webcam with some random dude, and you know girls, beers, and webcams...

Well that's what started the escalating, as they started flashing the guy on the other end, I got involved playing around with them. And within a few minutes he was forgotten and we were all in the bed. About 30 min later though, the one girl started puking, lol. Having been only the 2nd time I hung out with them I got up told her much more sober friend to watch her, got dressed and left. I managed to hook up with them separately a few times after, but never got another go around as one of them always had a bf at one point.

As to whether or not they had planned it from the start, I don't know, and never cared to ask. But that's my story, pull from it what you can. Environment and comfort level seemed to play a big part.

Thanks for the great responses guys!

She does have a friend that she wants to join us, but I kind of like the spontaneity of pulling some random girl out of a club back to my place. We're going out this weekend, I've decided that I'm going to open the girls, and then my friend is going to do all the talking and invite the girl back for drinks. I'll let you guys know if it works!

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That's a pretty awesome story lol... guess I'll try to keep them from getting too wasted. I never considered the comfort level either.

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This is why I mentioned the "gay-friendly" club in my last post. Alright, here's my story/stories.

I met this one chick and she really liked me but she was bi and was up front about it. I will admit, I was a little intimidated by it because I never had to deal with such a thing, meanwhile, it was probably every other guy's fantasy. We would go to regular night clubs and such, but eventually, she told me she waned to go to the gay-friendly part of town to an after-hours. I decided to go, but my dumbass brought one of my loser friends, because I was afraid of being confused for gay (duhh... then why bring the other guy, moron?? stupid, I know).

So there I am, trying to act macho with my buddy, and she's out there on the dance floor picking up on all sorts of chicks. She pulled a group of hot Latinas and we went back to their townhome. Well since I brought my friend, I felt I had to entertain him, and I'm watching the girl I'm with getting all flirty with these chicks. I then go caveman and tell her we need to go. Later, I told her I got kind of jealous and then she told me the reason she pulled the girls was to get something going between us (threesome). I felt like an idiot. Next time around, she tried to surprise me with some chick, but she was definitely not my type (kinda country/redneck-ish) and I told her to ditch the girl. I never landed the threesome with her, but it's also because I thought I was all that, was banging chicks left and right, and eventually lost touch with her.

Now, the time I did score a threesome, it was back at the same part of town. I had broken up with my gf, but we were still having sex. I suppose I said something or she said something about having a threesome while we were fucking, but I didn't remember (I was probably drunk). She then invites me to a restaurant/club in that part of town with one of her friends who is pretty, big tits, and nice ass (wannabe model). We all get to drinking, one of her guy friends comes out (total fucking loser, lying MF'er posing as a talent scout). Well, we all eventually get pretty buzzed, and out of nowhere, my ex's chick-friend starts making out with her. All the straight dudes around are jocking HARD, but I'm playing it cool like it happens all the time. My ex then whispers "Remember that thing we talked about? She's into it." We then ditch everyone, I speed back to my place, and it's history from there.

Ahhh, good times.

Anyway, my conclusion is something like Chris Rock said "He didn't turn gay, he just didn't have anyone to be gay with." These chicks already had those desires, but being in the environment made it feel more natural to act on it.

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