Hey man,
You want to know the secret behind the most powerful
eye contact flirting technique that helped me discover the truth on how to make women chase me and hit on me like crazy almost before I even say anything to them and without worrying about what I'm going to say?
If yes, I'm very excited to tell you that one of the most important body language skills for effortlessly attracting women that you'll ever learn is knowing how to use your "smiling eyes."
So, what are the "smiling eyes" all about?
There're two things you need to know in order to learn how to use your "smiling eyes" to wildly attract a woman and
make her chase you. The first thing is about the technical stuff on how to do it, and the second thing is about having the right mindset that helps you show your "smiling eyes" in the most natural way.
1. Your "smiling eyes" are nothing about you actually smiling but just about projecting or airing your playful mindset through your eyes so that they look like they're almost smiling. Hope I'm not confusing you here. A cool way of explaining how you can have your "smiling eyes" is that you first try to have a big, wide smile on your face for a second and then you slowly shrink that smile into your serious facial look where your mouth is not smiling any longer. And, here's the thing. Although you're not actually smiling any more, you're now left with having your "smiling eyes" because your earlier facial smile had an effect on your eyes so that they now really look like they're smiling.
2. The attraction power of your "smiling eyes" comes from your playful mindset that's merely projected through your eyes. To easily project this kind of mindset, all you need to do is to simply try to tell her through the lenses of your eyes something like this (NOTE: you're not saying this to her out loud but just through your eyes, OK?):
"You're so cute and adorable but I've just met you and I'm not thinking of having sex with you yet."
I hope that you can see that the above kind of playful mindset is all about you subtly letting her know that you might be potentially interested in her while not being needy toward her at the same time. This is where her chase starts because she gets subconsciously attracted to your positive emotions that are telling her that you're naturally happy, excited and fulfilled guy who leads a very busy and cool life, and who has a lot of options as to meeting other hot women.
Doing this actually helps you in three ways:
a) you come across as a very attractive guy.
b) you come across as a very confident guy.
c) you feel no approach anxiety but just your super positive emotional vibes all thanks to your playful mindset.
Now, you might be asking me "So, how do I transition from flirting with her just through my smiling eyes to flirting with her through my words?"
That's an awesome question. And, the actual answer is very easy. All you need to do is to carry on having your playful mindset and playfully reveal to her exactly how much you're attracted to her while you're showing her that you're not needy toward her at the same time.
The easiest way you can start to flirt with her through your words is by playfully saying a banter line in combo with your
negative body language. Banter lines are nothing but short, playful lines where you're giving the girl that you've just met the image of a girl that's heavily flirting with you right from the beginning.
For example, if you see a very sexy girl who has an extremely hot ass, your banter line could be: "So, this is how you always seduce guys? (now you can playfully check out her ass for a couple of seconds) I don't know if you get this from many guys but I must tell you that you've almost made me spank your ass before you spank mine."
Now, here's an important bit that most guys don't get. Once you say your banter line, you should immediately show her your negative body language that's all about playfully turning your body away or facing away from her for a couple of seconds. The whole point of using negative body language is to let her know that while you might be wildly attracted to her, you're definitely not needy toward her, and furthermore you're ready to walk away from her at any moment if she doesn't like the way you're freely expressing your real sexual feelings about her.
To wrap this up, I'd just like to remind you of the truth on why your body language is such a big deal to women before they decide if they're attracted to you. And, the truth is this:
"Your beliefs control your emotions, and your emotions control your body language."
What this means is that whenever you recite a random pick up line in front of a woman and she gets a sense that what you're saying to her doesn't really feel totally natural and fun to you, she'll be able to tell that you don't really believe that what you're saying to her is real and right to you. In other words, she'll get turned off by your words because she'll be able to pick up on your negative emotions and your negative beliefs just by looking at your body language, and she'll be able to tell that what you're saying to her is fake.
So, if you want to get good at powerfully attracting women, you need to make sure that you do two things:
a) Whatever you decide to say to her must always feel totally natural and fun to you. Whether it is a banter line, dirty pick up line or a direct sexually charged statement through which you compliment on her hot ass, it must be in line with how you feel about her. Otherwise, she'll see you as a very weak, insecure and creepy guy who's unsure of himself.
b) You'll have to learn how to project your non-neediness through both your eyes (your "smiling eyes") and your negative body language.
Now, my question for you is:
"What's currently holding you back from unleashing your best with women and enjoying the game?"
Bruno
CHAT