I might see one of my exs (when I was in middle school) at the gym. We are both 19 now, and this will be the first time I see her since high school. How do I approach this? BTW I am really in shape and I go to the gym regularly, but I've never gamed an ex before! Well, I actually never gamed a TAKEN girl! BTW I will add that she has a boyfriend who is skinny as hell, and looks like my ass! I look handsome and always get looks from girls.

I already have an idea on how to approach this so critique me @ this. I see her immediately at the gym on a treadmill or workout machine or whatever! I don't go close to her but walk slowly towards her until I see that she sees me. At this point, she should be pretty far from me, but I beckon to her to stop the workout and proceed towards me. She will follow me because (seriously, I hate to sound conceited, but I want to paint it really accurately) I catch many hot girls staring at me when I look around the gym, quickly darting their eyes when I look into theirs.

As she approaches me I tell her I think you owe me something.

When she responds to or asks about that line, I will tell her about this following story. She was my second girlfriend, and this was in middle school. I was so shy and my first girlfriend had broken up with me after just 1 week of being together, which I don't think she knows and I won't tell/reminder her of that even! But just for the sake of filling in some exposition to my story, I will include that in this post. But anyway, I was so shy I never kissed her, even though she was attracted to me and wanted me to. I was just happy to have a girlfriend. But I remember during our 2 month relationship (I believe these were the last 2 months of middle school) she said that her neighbor had tried to kiss her, but he was just a friend, and she told me how it meant nothing. I won't tell her that I was pissed off about her neighbor getting more action at the time, but it made me want to break up with her, so I did. I was stupid at the time, so what can I say.

I didn't dump her after this had happened, but I just stopped calling her for a week, when I would normally chat with her for several hours a day. I told her I liked another girl, and we never really talked since. However, we are no longer kids, but we are adults. But this paragraph doesn't matter. Read my game plan in the next paragraph...

I will say, "You owe me a kiss. It can be anywhere you like, lips cheek, use your imagination." I'll only mention all the positives of that previous story and lead it into the following...

She can't resist right? Especially w/ C&F push pull escalation?

I'd also like to add that I'm smart too. I'm a premed major and currently have a 3.89 GPA at college, so I have plenty of good DHV stories, but I don't really plan on introducing to it unless she asks about my future. I'll then close the approach with, let's go out for some coffee and some stimulating conversation, that way if I don't like you, I can claim that I have to go floss my dog's teeth and leave! Of course all of this said with a cocky funny attitude. I'll ask her number, with this one: oh..what steps would we have to take in order to make sure we can talk again? I haven't talked to her on the phone in forever so this is a perfect closer, she gives me her number and BOOM, IT'S A DONE DEAL.

I know I'm using canned material, but it only serves as an outline to structure my game plan. It's sort of like an outline, and I fill it in with my own meaty goods (no pun intended).

May I have assistance with my problem? I guess more specifically, will this work or is this seriously flawed? Thanks in advanced.