could someone please advise me on how to approach this situation... 1 year ago met a girl in night club we kissed and exchanged numbers then proceeded to meet up then after a few meets i started going to her place to chill and watch the first series of friends we got pretty close but didnt have sex because i threw away her trust :/ as i told her about shagging another girl when i was seeing her (thought it would be better to tell the truth.. guess not) and we ended up parting mainly because her friends said she should..... so now im faced with a situation where i just matched her on tinder and i want to shag her i no once i meet up with her ill have it in the bag but how do i open her on tinder ?

Well, that could be a bit tricky...

One advice would be to just forget about her. It sounds to me like your game is tight, so forget about having sex with her if it is just for your ego. There are some women in my life I have dated that I never got to fuck, and the best thing is to simply let it go.

If you are determined to have sex with her however, you will need to make some contact with her and the gauge her interest based on that. Don't come on too strong at first; you really hurt her at one point so keep that in mind. Chat with her, "how's it going", all that. If she responds positively, meet up for coffee. If not, let her go.

I have never been in your situation but this is how I would respond let us know how it works out for you!

- Andreas

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Thanks for the reply Andreas.

So heres how it went...

Tinder

Me: Haha since when did get get tinder "A" ?
A: Like saturday because i thought it was funny when i was drunk lol (lies she wants the D )
Me: fair enough. I take it your back at uni now?
A: Yeah yeah started yesterday, what you up to?
Me: Im still doing my blah blah blah. What did you get up to for new years? text me its alot easier $£%@$£@
A: Just tried that number message never delievered :/ (get back in the kitchen)
Me: whats yours ill try that. (do I have to do everything myself?)
A: $%££^&@£^%

Text

Me: Its Tyrone
A: oh its coming through as an email address how odd
Me: dunno why that is. what have you been up to today?
A: just uni you ?
Me: ive been at work all day now just watching footy at the pub with a couple of mates. what are you up to tomorrow?
A: well im going uni probably jungover but hey. you?
Me: haha fair paly where are you going tonight? + do you want to meet up tomorrow after i finish work?
A: (next day) im sorry didnt even see this, im in lectures today and quite ill from last night, maybe another time this week or next?

then i left it couldnt really see it going anywhere she wasnt that interested and constantly stalling me in the hope that i would just give up.

In conclusion ive realised and I hope others will see that going back to a girl isnt ideal because she allready has a strong view of you. im glad I messaged her tho because at least ive learnt not to waste my time like this again.