Hello .. I've been married 13 years and wifey and I have discussed having an open marriage or practicing a polygamy type relationship. My issue is I wouldn't know the first thing to say to a woman if they ask me if I'm married .. second of all how can you convince a woman to get to know you as a married guy? ... because wifey is giving me the ok to go out and see what's out there then if all goes well then hopefully it manifests into a successful open marriage .. the problem is how can I approach somebody and explain my situation without scarring anybody off? .. like what would I say? Advice anybody?? ..

First of all, kudos to you for having such an understanding wife. Second, I will try to answer your question based on my experience dealing with an open relationship (not marriage) situation. What you should do is own it! If you think that open marriages are cool, you will project the belief onto your targets. If you believe you deserve this situation, you deserve it. If you feel guilty about it, it will show and your targets will tag you as insincere. About target choice, those who run away scared are actually de-selecting themselves from your list of targets. Those who stay are the ones that you will have a lot of fun with. Husband hunters: OUT... Liberated women looking for sexual pleasure: IN

Now to the "fun" part about dealing with objections, I encountered questions from targets that knew I was seeing this girl on a semi-regular basis, that sounded like "what would your girlfriend say if she knew you are hitting on me?" or "are you not in a relationship with ......?". My answers were in the range of "I live outside of social norms and labels... My friend ....... and I are free to explore what's out there and make the best out of this journey". Openness stops their questioning dead on track. Chicks are used to guys lying about being married/involved with someone or at least that they are lying to their partner about having some fun on the side. So, enjoy the freedom and keep us posted... Good luck!

Dude from my understanding and I'm sure other can weigh in, women are more accessible to married men. Many times they will see the ring and not care, even blatantly come on to you. Just don't mention the marriage and if she says something tell her nonchalantly it's 100% cool. That's it, 100% cool and not a problem. Not until after you sleep with her would I mention open marriage etc.