Does anybody else do this?

If a girl is clearly not 'feeling' me or doesn't want to get on my wavelength and have some fun they make it pretty clear. Its these girls however that I put the most effort into talking too. Its like a challenge. I feel like its my duty to win them over.

I'll be honest, I haven't got a number from a girl like this, but I just can't give up and I waste time when I could be talking to girls who are more receptive.

Does anyody else do this? Or should I be aiming to win any girl around? Surely some people just don't get on?

If you're like me you don't have all time to waste talking to girls playing the game against you. I didn't use to but now seriously don't have the time to be chasing her string like a cat with a new toy. She can chase my string I dangle in front of her or walk away. If she chases great, if not, time for me to move on.

So in short you have her chasing your string not the other way around. You do this by taking control of the frame and not calling her back immediately, or waiting a few days to call, text, or email. You have to keep conveying that non-needy attitude.

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I didn't explain myself very well.

I'm was talking about in a bar/club environment.

I'm talking about the girls who are often rude, dismissive etc and act like 'the ugly best friend'.

I do need to be quicker to walk away and not waste my time (as you said), but when you do this do you ever feel that if you would have done something just a little bit different you'd have got a different reaction?

Its not a problem of 'night club one-itis' (far from it), its just that I feel I should be winning over EVERY girl I speak to. When this doesn't happen it pisses me off.

Listen: you need to be friends with nearly everyone (well, in the perfect scenario) but you can't always in reality - So if you have tried you have to let the "ugly-best-friend" go, and focus and your target and isolate her .

! Do I get you right ?

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LOL, nah, you're not getting me!!

Let me break it down. As a PUA should EVERY girl I speak to like me or at the very least want to be in my company? Or are there always going to be girls that you can't win over?

lol i understand what your saying..i would say its a personal decision..if you want to go ahead and work on those dead ends go ahead..but is it smart? no..work smart not hard..by the time your done with the dead end your just exhausting yourself..and plus your being watched by everybody around you..people are always looking at people..by you doing that your just eating away your value little by little...

Good point.

This is something I need to work on.

Cheers

You've got to know when to hold 'em and know when to fold 'em.

In an ideal world, you would be able to hook every girl, but for various reasons, that is impossible. They may have a boyfriend, could be that time of the month, may have a had a bad day, or they could just be f#ckin' boring girls!

Dont waste your time on these girls! Time is your most precious resource in life. You cant get it back.

Adopt the attitude that if they dont like what you have on offer, it's their loss...

If i'm not getting anywhere, I eject and go and find some more interesting targets...

Well put