So i will start off by saying i am 22, and am not terrible at getting girls.

But, last year i met a girl who is 19(my friends say she is about a HB 5 and that i have done way better) through a complete random add on facebook. She lapped up my initial disinterest in her and wanted to get to know me. Our mutual friends told her all these rumours that i am a 'playa' and she continued to talk to me. Eventually she broke through and we would chat all night on facebook about anything and everything, music taste the same, etc, etc sobby shit... Give it a few months and we finally meet out of pure cooincidence on a night out.. She had told me "I want to kiss you but you i don't want to feed your ego." ... so of course we kissed.

After that night she had told mutual friends i was very drunk and spitting her face etc etc(good one). However i met one of these mutuals friends and told her that we were chilling.. She went frantic and was trying to gain my attention back because i suddenly became mean.

A month later we hang out(after me questioning her maturity and us both being busy). We ended up kissing and i didn't pursue any further than that... I had to question whether i wanted to hurt a girl of such innocence who had only slept with one guy who was her serious boyfriend before.

Anyway, that night i ended up sleeping with another girl, stupidly.

She obviously doesn't know about that but it put up my walls. Give it a long time(months) of me 'maybe-ing' plans and her excitement to do something and she finally gets sick of my shit as i can read.

I text her and she starts to give me shitty responses.

I ask her to do something and i get busy here n theres.

So i eventually do an AFC and bring her flowers to work, suddenly sparks fly and all this crazy shit. But it was still hard to pin a day to do something because of uni.

Eventually it went on and she tried to give me the "im still trying to pick up the pieces from my last relationship"(2 yearsish ago).... Her friend kept telling me otherwise and that she would always talk about me and good + bad things i would do.

Eventually i rocked up to her place uninivted and she freaked. I told her if she was creeped out just to cut me out. Give it a week and she drunk messages me through facebook asking why i was grumpy and wanting to call to talk.

We have a laugh at the situation and i try plan something with her but she fails to respond.

I ignore her for 2 weeks and she tries talking to me again because she sees another girl commenting on my wall... i read it but dont respond! Then recently i tried talking again, she questioned me ignoring her and i told her i was busy. Then i followed that up(stupidly) by asking to do something soon. She reads at 8am it but ignores obviously

Then a few days later she starts talking to me again, we have a big laugh like old times and i realize i miss that... i brought up conversation the next day and we had small chat... i had given her 'cold responses' for her cold responses eg.:

me:

busy with study im guessing!
her:

Nah cbf tonight

I am passing out

Had 3 labs in a row today no break
me:

euuugh at labs

wellll if you are passing out, then i won't disturb yall, gnight


her:
Yeah they suck

Last day of Uni for the year tho
me:
haha fair enough, lucky you
her:

Well besides my 5 exams
me:
thats pretty intense, good luck

What should i do to budge this rock?!?