Ok well i dont like talking, i dont like asking lots of stupid questions that im not interested in the answer anyway. Its not a job interview, im here to have fun. How do i become the buyer and not the seller?

By not SPAM the product

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

and how do you do that?

You know you're awesome, you don't need to prove anything. What can the girl offer you that other girls cant? What makes the girl special and unique? Why should you talk to this girl instead of all the other pretty girls in the bar? This is a buyer's mentality. You should give her a little hit of "heroin" (your aura / personality) get her addicted to it, then she will chase you and keep coming back for more. You should imagine that the chick is trying to apply for a job at your company. What qualities do you look for in a woman? Buyers only buy the best possible products available, they don't settle for average women.

Sellers (i.e. typical chode dudes) do the opposite, they put the girl's needs above their own. They try to impress the girl, they flash money around, flatter her before she has earned it, boast about their wealth or job or sexual conquests, buy her drinks all night in order to "buy" more time with her, think of excuses to meet up with her, speak too fast because they are trying to show off, take steroids to get big biceps because they are scared to approach, constantly act like a clown and tell over-exaggerated jokes in desperation to make her laugh etc. Sellers are like people at a job interview trying to "sell" themselves to force the girl to like them.

Have you read a single book on Pick Up? You're going to have to start somewhere before being overloaded with different methods on the forums.

The trick is to act uninterested in the girl. Be passive about her being in your life. How you attract her is in your body language and your overall perceived value. The most noticable value is your social value. If you're popular and people want to be around you she'll pick up on this. Naturally she'll see you as a valuable individual and want to be around you, when you stop being like the 90% of guys out there and don't show romantic or sexual interest in her on first meeting she'll start to seek validation from you.

Basically...

Body language for attraction(Outer game). Naturally your body language will adapt to your comfort level but there are some mannerisms you need to work in naturally such as posture and specific stances. When you're talking to a girl never stand facing her directly. Have a stance that says "I'm about to leave, this doesn't interest me that much." Have one foot facing towards her and the other facing away from her with your feet apart. Be confident and try be comfortable no matter where you are.

After that you'll notice immediate changes in how women react to your approach. Try it out. Go out tonight approach a woman and open on her(Any opener). Approach with your normal stance or with your feet locked towards her. Then try open another group with the approach I outlined above(Feet apart, one foot directed at her, the other directed away from her) and the same opener. You'll notice a difference.

After the initial attraction/interest is sparked you just act like you're not all that interested in her.