So here is the scenario, I am at the bar talking to my wing. There was this cute blonde about a foot away from me, being hit on by 6 guys. My wing was the first to notice that she was turning her head to check me out. I noticed it afterwards and she did it a few more times. I know this is a sign to go and talk to her. So I decided to wait it out until these guys left her alone or she walked away. So me and my wing moved to the other corner of the bar and were approached by two chicks. So we started talking to them, and I noticed the blonde turning her shoulder to see where I am. So I eject myself from the 2 set to go to the bathroom. After coming back the blonde is gone and the two set leaves. Obviously I blew it , but what would you do to open the blonde that was being smothered by guys she wasn't interested in?

All you can do is proceed. There is not always a full blown plan of action man. You felt the ioi's, just make a move. Maybe approach, say something along the lines of 'there has got to be something interesting going on with all of you people here' or something. You know it is just her though, don't hint that you know that. Flirt a little be gone back to your friends. DHV can be achieved by approaching and being the most comfortable in the situation from the jump.

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LOL here is a little social trick I will pull in a situation like this.... It's pretty difficult to walk up to her and open her with out being blown out right away. So here is what you do...

Go to the bartender. Say "I want to buy that girl a drink" and point to her. Try and make it obvious to her that you are buying her a drink. If she doesn't see you cool. Still proceed. Have the bartender give her a WATER and say its from you. Give the guy a buck or two for his time but make sure she knows that you got it for her. 9 times out of 10... She will storm over to you asking "WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS?!" because she is so used to random guys buying her Long Islands and shots of Grey Goose.

You have now pulled her away from the 6 guys that she was talking to.

Try it out! It's actually alot of fun with the response that you will get.

Majikal, that's an awesome idea. Never thought about that. I suggest Majikal's method, it's something that not everyone does these days and she'll be stunned by it and more curious to know about you.

However, here's a way to isolate her from the group:
You go in and throw in any line to get the guy's attention, such as (I guess mystery's line) "Looks like the party is over here" or something like that. Anything that would get anyone's attention would do the trick. Most importantly, remember that you need to open up the whole place before even approaching such girls.

Now in your case, I would've taken one of the 2 girls that approached you near the bathroom and used her as a dummy to lure the blonde chick. Its too late though, hope it's a lesson learned.

Thanks good stuff, I'm writing this stuff down lol!

Reminds me of a scene in the movie Hitch where Hitch approached a girl in that same situation. What he did was he went up to a girl and treated her as a waiter, ordered a drink and walked away. She got mad and followed him. You might wanna try it out.

Here's the scene I was talking about: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IShHOub-PO0

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Eye contact and non verbal communication is your friend.

What you can also do..

You can make eye contact with her, and give her a facial expression that conveys "check out all these weirdo's surrounding you"

When she smiles about it, just go straight up to her, cut everybody off and say "hey honey, sorry I'm late, lets get a drink " (and take her away) and you can both continue to role play and blow everybody out.

She will think its such a smart idea and give you brownie points for being socially astute and you can always continue the role play and and talk about how high maintanence you are and that you are glad you forgave her whn she caught you and her sister together bla.

ALSO.

If you are really ballsy, you could just go straight up into the crowd, give her a cheeky smile and just take her hand and lead her out of the orbiter circle. Kinda like how the Moses' story and that he moves the sea to both sides and walks straight through it

She will commend your guts if you do it good, make sure you are in state and its not your 1st approach of the night otherwise it could get ugly haha although it would get you into state even if it didn't work.

Goodluck.

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