Hey guys, I am new. So new I dont even know how,where, or what time is best to approaching women. Some books have said to only approach in certain places. Other books say to approach anywhere. Help guys cuz im real confused.

Keep reading.

You'll find out that there are no concrete rules when it comes down to it.

Sometimes, you need to create situations where you will naturally meet women (pottery clubs, yoga, seminars, wine tastings etc.). Sometimes your buddy drags you to a club where you know no one.

Everything will be situational, and you'll be good at some things and not at others. You'll find out what you're good at, after "experience." And that means, getting shut down, going through many awkward silences, saying something stupid, trying to kiss too early etc. etc. Then you have a choice, focus on what you're good at or cultivate whats not there? That's up to you.

But like anything in life, there will be shitty things that may happen. Just deal with the shitty moments and think, "That'll be a good story someday" and shrug it off.

As soon as you start getting a taste of success, life will get easier. You'll start to see results immediately and start thinking you are the man, more failures may follow. And this is all great news, because then you make smaller adjustments to tighten up your game. This process gets more and more fun as you go.

So basically, you have some shitty moments awaiting you...but you have a world of potential to experience some truly awesome moments in life. Let that be your guide to not only just getting women, but being a successful person. THAT makes life easier for every man.

Agreed with all of that. The only thing I would add(depending on where you are coming from) its don't try and focus on your long term goal as the target. Start out learning to approach and open and then trying to reach the hook point. Once you have that down work on closing, then you can work on everything else. This is how Neil Straus approached it and I have certainly noticed that when I approach with the mind-set the only thing I am trying to do this time is start a conversation and I have won instead of I am trying to f close her. I find I get more success with the initial approach and that lets me go on far further than I might be aiming to do.

Well done for joining and welcome to the forums!

Raven

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