A Recipe for a Successful Opening/Approach:

-A little general knowledge on the social nature of women
-Something to talk about
-CONFIDENCE

What is opening/approach?
First and foremost this can mean a wide range of things such as a simple "hi" to a set opener like "who lies more guys or girls." Why do we use these? Well you have to go up and talk to a woman silly... so every one of us is going to need to open a woman up to conversation.

Social Nature of Women
In general women are the "social butterflies" of the world. They love to talk right? They love to gossip. The keys to talking to women are finding out what makes them talk and continue talking. Movies and reality point to a concept all the time that "women just want to talk to someone and have them actually listen." Although you may not want to and the thing you may be thinking about is getting in a woman pants your still going to have to get her talking about herself or her opinions/beliefs or you won't get to much success. Women want to go out and talk to new people they don't have it set in their minds to be superbitches when they wake up in the morning. I know i may be rambling but the main idea is that women want to talk. They like being social. But most of all they like talking about their opinions and themselves. So get em talking about themselves and you'll notice a lot more success then making small talk!

Something to Talk About
A lot of men think this is the big one.... oh if i just knew what to say i could do it.... dude...take it from me I could give you all the things I say to girls or GAMBLER or MYSTERY or whoever and you could still crash and burn.... don't look for openers. Thats a big mistake a lot of guys make. Although I will say at first you may need one or two to get started but eventually to be successful in the game your going to need to come up with your own openers I bet you that you'll be exponentially more successful that way. But for starters I'll name a few that I used last night just to throw them out there so you can use them.... but please just use them as guidance and not magic line that is gonna get girls because the line won't get them its YOU who will.

-"Have you ever kissed a guy at a bar but it didn't mean anything?"
-"What do you think about the Zimmerman Trial?"
-hell i'll put it here anyway....."Who lies more guys or girls?"

What do all of these statements have in common? They all are getting a woman to give her OPINION on something. They get to state what they think or believe and thats all they really want to do. Besides the first one they are also generally not statements that make it seem like you are "hitting" on them....They get hit on all the time so you don't want to come across like you are trying to pick them up or trying to get their number. But sometimes that can work to its all on you and your "game"

CONFIDENCE
The biggest one of the 3. Well lets see what is confidence.... it is a state of being... being sure of yourself and/or your decisions.... All women want a confident man. If you can portray that then you will be 10x more successful with women. If you want to know what my thoughts are when i'm about to talk to a woman i will gladly tell you:

I NEVER GO UP TO A WOMAN WITH THE INTENTION OF GETTING HER NUMBER OR HITTING ON HER.....EVER

What if you go up to her and after 5 minutes you find out she was a total bitch....and you don't even like her personality.... thats highly likely. If you want to get a woman then you have to like her right...not just her looks but her personality as well. So why go up to a girl like your hitting on her? Instead go up to a woman thinking

I'm going to talk to someone I don't know who may have different opinions and interests then I do, and if I find out I like her then I will pursue her.

If you can do that I guarantee it will be so much easier to talk to a woman. Because then there is no pressure of failing. You aren't trying to hit on her at all. You are just making conversation and if you find her interesting enough then she could possibly become something more.