Hi guys,

Well, I am in a weird situation. There's a really cute girl I have spotted my neighborhood. I even know where she lives as I came across her when she was entering her building.

The problem is that I only saw her once. Some friends told me to pass often in her street to increase the odds of bumping into her. However, I am rarely at home these days and I cannot stand there all day just with the hope of seeing her sometime by chance. So, this strategy is not good to me.

The only somewhat reasonable solution I have imagined is to write a short anonymous letter (I will put some crap about noticing her but not knowing how to get in touch; asking her to meet for some drinks) with my phone number and ask one of the people living in her building to show me her mailbox.

It might sound crazy but I really want to give it a try (I won't be too sad if she rejects me, but I cannot live without the thought of not having tried anything).

Could you guys please give me some advice on how to deal with this situation?

Many thanks!
Cheers

advice would be no written form of communication then you just come off and being a stalker type .... What do you rate this girl ? HB 8-10 So if she is there she would just dismiss you ... You need to seperate yourself and just take a chance and approach her ... even if it means waiting or bribing a kid to do it

If she lives in your neighbourhoud, don't worry. You'll eventually meet her. Go have some fun and meet other girls and when time comes you see her again, open. Otherwise you'll end up with oneitis.

There was this girl (I've made out with her girlfriend). I have no interest in her. But somehow, I already met her three times on accident. And she doesn't live in my neighbourhoud. Just let the universe do his thing and you'll eventually meet her again.