Hello everyone,
I just read a comment from a poster who I generally find quite knowledgeable and insightful (Translation, i believe) who said that night game is much more complicated than day game. But I'm finding night game is easier for a couple of reasons.
First, people are buzzed, and their inhibitions are lowered. Opening guys and girls is easier, as people are just feeling more glib. Second, there are multiple groups of people/individuals one can interact with to generate social proof. I often go out alone, so this is key. And third, you just have more time.
But the thing is, the average person spends a LOT more time in scenarios where day game is more applicable. The one I most often find myself in is walking around the mall/park/town, and I see a girl or girls I want to open. Opening always goes well, I can usually always catch attention and make people laugh and engage in conversation.
The problem is, other than the fact that a particular target is having friendly, smiling, laughing conversation with me, its hard for me to know what IOIs to look for. So a lot of times, I'll end up just trying to number close with every target, not knowing how that will go. Which is fine, I'm not scared of rejection. But I notice that with the more attractive girls, I'm not getting past getting the number.
So I guess I want to know how I can adjust to create more excitement and tension so that the short interaction we have will have girls wanting to meet up rather than just thinking 'oh, that was fun, now on to the next thing.'
I really appreciate anyone who shares any day game experience, and just know that if you're on this forum, trying to be better at socializing and relating to people, you're 100% more awesome than half the people I meet who are so into themselves that they have no desire to branch out.
Peace out, my dudes.

I really like that comment.

As for getting less daygame flakes, I have found that when I am more warm and flirty in the convo (while remaining dominant) and displaying sexual energy in a classy way so the girls feel a close connection through eye contact, kino and just the overall way I'm talking to her in a manner that I would talk to a gf who I just had sex with, the girls are more apt to want to meet up.

Also leaving more warmly and not just walking away but maybe brushing her hair out of her eyes/kiss on the cheek/the girl comes in for a full hug, and sealing the connection that way helps.

You said a couple of interesting and helpful things here.

Yeah, I'm coming to the realization that I need to work on my kino skills. I'm usually only comfortable with kino when I know a girl is into me already, only making moves I know will go over well. I guess I need to make moves that have unpredictable results to test for potential flakes.

Also, talk to me about dominance. I don't really think about that while I'm interacting but I guess I need to. I don't act like a bitch or anything, I don't act submissive or like, excessively compliment or fail shit tests. But I don't get a lot of shit tests come to think of it. I just have pleasant, fun interactions where no one seems dominant or submissive. Just two people (or more) having fun. But I'm thinking I need to think that way to generate the kind of excitement that is needed.

So tell me some things you would do/not do to maintain dominance. And don't say "don't tell her she's beautiful and that you'd do anything to date her" or whatever. I already know that. More subtle things.

I actually have found night game allot easier too. But then again i haven't really spent allot of time at daygame. It really has more to do with me then the environment per se though.

Since when i go out for Nightgame I go out looking my best. And I get into the proper mindset to be social. Whereas during the day I may not be dressed in my best clothes and can be kind of slumming around. And tend to fall into a more introverted frame of mind like most people.

I also like the directness in nightgame. Since its immediately implied there is sexual interest if you approached at a club. So I tend to find girls IOIs in return are much more clearer and direct.

But again I guess it all depends which environment your used to. I eventually gotta work more the day game stuff.

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