I'm new here, and I'd like to get more numbers and go on dates and realize you only get what you give, you try nothing you get nothing. I'm not trying to aspire to be a player, I just don't want to be an AFC and realize being able to approach and attract women is an essential part of a male's life. I also like that this is a hard thing to do and requires gonads, and it makes me want to get better at it.

I really cannot see myself using alot of the canned material nor the canned openers; they're just too extravagant. But I do think the approach is the most critical part of the game because if you don't sack up, nothing is going to happen.

Let's face it, women at the club are never alone; they're in small to large clicks with girls or with guys. The ones with an even guy to girl ratio I stay away from. One male and lots of females I approach, all girl groups I'm more intimidated by but need to balls up more and approach.

For the 1-2 male with girls, I approach the guy in the group; it's much less intimidating and then I look for a way to speak/introduce myself to the girls. I've done this before, and it hasn't failed me yet. Usually the guy is with one of the girls and is more than willing to give you a go at the single women.

For the all girls, I try to find the most sociable one and go for her singling her out: "You seem to be the more social of the group, come here often? When does this place get popping?". 1 Girl of the group=all the girls of the group as long as you turn your attention to them:"I don't want to be shady my name is xyz".

Any advice, criticism? I'm here to learn.