Before gaining the confidence from pua teachings, I only really picked up girls who had approached me, i wouldnt have dreamed of doing a cold approach, but I can now, although it takes a hell of a lot and I often find it hard to stick to the 3 second rule. However there is a situation i find myself struggling with. Approach invitations.

In a cold approach I have my own routines etc. and i work well. However, if i'm at a bar or a club and I see a girl giving me ioi's from across the room, I have almost no idea what to do. For a regular pua i imagine this is a great thing and can easily go and talk to her. But i find myself struggling to know what to do. Now since she has given me ioi's and has let me know she is open for approach, i can no longer 'cold approach'. It means going much more direct, which i really dont do well! So what do you people out there do when you get an approach invitation? Is it just as simple as going over and introducing yourself?

Also similarly, often i find myself walking through a club and a girl will come the opposite way and give me an ioi whilst moving (looking me in the eyes then up and down etc with a smile). Do I stop her? do i do a 180 and catch up to her?

Im sure it is very simple but I dont want to run the risk of having read the signs wrong and approaching a girl that isnt actually interested.

Thanks for your help!

Its not what you do, its how you feel when doing it. And this is clearly just a confidence issue. Meaning, you have gotten accustomed to approaching, but you haven’t had much experience in actually getting approached (or getting direct IOIs).

I’m sure you’ve heard “just say hi and introduce yourself.” Well, its true. If she’s interested, it doesn’t really matter what you say as long as you don’t come across douche. A pick-up line is douchey (unless it’s a hilarious one). Smile back, meander on over there and give her a confident “Hi” and you are in.

If there is anything you could do, is make sure you check your own body language when approaching to make yourself as alpha looking as possible, then just work your magic man.

The great Cajun says he has a specific line he uses for these occasions, that really negs the hell out of her by being C&F. It goes along these lines: "Well, you're giving me that look and you're not saying anything?"
Remember she already negged herself by inviting you and now you're being CF and negging her again. Just make sure you're not over negging.

BTW always remember to hold the stare for several seconds!

Do anything but nothing..just think of it as a crash course and shes your next obstacle and its just a game..then go from there