First post. I've been divorced for 4 months dating for 3 months. I've been doing it exclusively online. The women I run into live that I've asked out have either been engaged (with no ring) or have boyfriends. I've been complimented for being confident and aggressive though so that felt great.

So online, I am doing really well. I'm witty and I think average looking, but I am confident live and via text/email. I've dated about 20 women in 3 months and got 8 right now that I've either gone out with from 1-3 times or first dates set up. In messaging or texting I'm getting the "You're funny" comments often and I'm not sure if I should be focusing on being more sexually flirtatious in my communication. I've been working at bringing in a suggestive tone, but I'm struggling a little with bringing it in off the bat. Any advice or are there any of the coaches that you think are really strong in the online/texting world?