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Any ideas on the most affective way of doing this? my situation is... The last time I went to this clothing store this really nice girl was working there who is often there and I managed to catch some interesting vibes when chatting to her normally as per the business sense ie talking about what shirt would best suit me.
It was interesting because I was initially being served by another girl and with my good strong positive posture I have been trying I locked eyes with her twice and it was on that second time she came over and asked me how my day was going?.
The reason I didn't get her number is because her boss was present in the area, but I know shes there and my plan is to approach her again tomorrow or on the weekend.
I was thinking about asking her what the best coffee shop in the mall is and then asking her if she would like to join me when her next break comes on, good idea ?
If I were you, I would go back into the store and look for her to be available to assist you, then try on a couple of shirts. This should give you sufficient time with her to work some game, warm her up and gauge her interest.
You're giving her a reason to check you out openly as you try on the shirts and ask her opinions. If she has any level of attraction to you, it should be pretty clear through her body language. Its just a matter of triggering her reactions.
Just keep it friendly but flirtatious.
for example: ( after you tried a couple of shirts on)
You: which shirt do you like best?
Her: # 2
You: Why?
Her: I dunno, i like the color blue or it fits nicer ( blah blah-doesn't matter)
You: I see, so if you and I were to go on a date, I should wear a shirt that's blue ( or fits that way)
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If the signs are there, then confess to her. You're not really looking for a shirt you just wanted to buy some time with her without getting her into trouble so you could ask her for a coffee on her break or whatever.
Good luck dude.