Short story: Lot of girls, some already gave IOI and seem very prepare for the approach. I see them like twice a week and I want to open. I am very self-confident but right now I'm lacking of imagination. They have lot of DHV (they're on a gym with lot of guy duh!).


What do you suggest?

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Actually depend on what kind of person you are.
If you are more of the direct type.
Just go up and straight up.
-Hi, I been training here for an hour and I have to say you look really adorable/cute/swag etc and I decide to come talk to you and take a chance.

something around these line.

If you want to more something more casual

-Hi do you might we share the machine? and my name is ____
chat up from there, usually ask about what they do for living and chat about what they do today etc.

-Man, I just like how you look focus. XD

-Man, you look really good with this exercice, can you show me how you do it.


But really the goals is to chat with them so you become familiar with them then at one point they will hit you up. From there you know you are in.

Hope its help.
Cheers mate !

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You could try asking them for a spot. They'll likely not know how to spot, and you could open a conversation from there.

I agree with what the previous poster said on asking to share a piece of equipment with them. That is an easy way to start conversing as well.

From a guy who has dated women from the gym and befriend several others, I can tell you that asking to work in with them on a piece of equipment is the best way to open. Be genuine as most women are self-conscious working in co-ed areas, especially if a lot of people are quite fit. I've actually had girls ask me for training tips and even agreed to workout with me as a result of working in with them on a machine. A lot of girls will have their bitch guard up in the gym, understandibly as they get harrassed a lot by guys in the gym. Just be respectful if she seems more interested in working out, don't follow (that's creepy, big time) or try to keep her there as it'll only frustrate her. I find that often in the gym short interactions are great for leading into longer ones and eventually dates.

I've found that short interactions and ignore after in the university works a lot. Now in gym what you said those makes sense n2dvoid. I will start that momentum tonight. Thanks you all guys.

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It's funny how guys think I'm screwing every girl I train with. I ve worked out with maybe 7 or more hotties from my gym within the past year. I come off to them as disarming, I dont stare at their ass and tits (at least obviously) like most guys do, and more often then not they want to workout - hell I had this young one tell me she wanted to take me to her place and f*ck the sh*t outta me. I find gym chicks very easy to approach as anything with practice, just don't be a creepo about it and you'll find most of them drop their guard pretty quick. Know when to book too (not hang around too much if she seems more interested in working out).

Lol yeah, you got that for sure. I don't like creepos, had to train some of my creepo friends, lol. Anything special you have notice that works more during the hang around moments? Or just "whats your name, where you live, what food you like?..etc"?

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I always make the opener incidental "are you preping for a competition?" whatever it doesn't have to be genius or creative. Its more about flying in under the radar and building rapport so she knows you aren't the standard perv trying to stare at her ass and get a quick lay.

Yeah, well I can surely do that. Thanks men.

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Was actually about to post something about this exact topic. The only thing that worries me though, is that it might be difficult to DHV/be alpha in the gym when you're surrounded by body builder types, and generally guys that are just much bigger than you (as in they look big but not weird steroid muncher big). Don't get me wrong, in a club or bar or whatever this wouldn't fade me at all, but just sorta seems to be that I'm trying to out alpha these guys on their own turf...

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She's just a person. If you talk to her with confidence, she'll start getting interested. And I don't know about you, but when I start getting really into a conversation, I zone out from surroundings a bit. Don't use your limiting thoughts to get out of trying.

Yeah your exactly right now I had time to think about it. There's no difference between the situation I was talking about and for example out gaming a better looking guy than you in a club, if your game's solid then nothing to worry about. Also in the gym your going for a #close, so if I day 2 literally anywhere else then the problem disappears.

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I don't like aproaching girls in the gym. When I finish with my work, I wait for the girl outside the gym and say something like:

"Hi, I saw you work really hard in the gym.. You must be really exhausted. Do you wanna drink something? I know a cool place where we could go..."

If she says that she can't, you can start the conversation easier the next time you see her in the gym.

Your profile says you're from Spain? If so, I suppose if the culture is different, it'd work better there. But in the US midwest, most girls would find this somewhat creepy. In my opinion though, to wait for a girl seems like you're willing to put your life on hold for a girl you don't even know yet. Like I said, culture must be different if it works well there.

"I dont wanna seem like that guy that hits on you at the gym, but im sorry....im going to have to be that guy ....I'm PEBBLE".

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