Hello all

So for about a couple months i always see this girl a couple times out the week on the bus but i cannot form words to open to her she looks at me and does a slight grin. she is a black girl not sure if that helps but im light skinned, played football, a senior in high school she looks like a freshman in college. Anyways most girls i do talk to usually talk to me 80% of the time but i lose a lot of Hb's from not approaching and opening what can i do to talk to her and sometimes she has on earbudds so what could help me get out of my wierd shyness that occurs when im alone.

PS. sorry if this post sucks it was my first.

Seriously guys can I get some type of info any

Maybe a simple "Hi, I constantly see you on this bus, My name is... make a short but light hearted conversation.

Make sure your smiling and just trying to be sociable. After all, if you see her everyday, then is considered NORMAL after you introduce your self to continue talking to her.

It's better to approach then do nothing at all. If your really shy then simply strike up a conversation, throw a few negs in there, make her laugh.

My advice: break the ice and use it as an excuse to talk to her whenever you feel because after your break the ice she won't see it as an approach anymore, just somebody she knows chatting with her. Then maybe you can number close her and set up a hangout/date.

if you are nervous just start small, say hi to her, nothing is needed beyond that, no forced convo, nothing, if she says nothing, wait another day and say hi again, just keep saying hi until that girl you don't know on the bus, becomes that girl who you do know on the bus, keep going until you can both talk to each other easy

If you're scared do what he says, even if you don't get results then and there you will be able to talk to her whenever "Sunny day today, right?" etc. After about 20-25 minutes of talking over one journey or many you will have built enough rapport to number close (Just like Style's rule, it takes 8 hours to build enough rapport to have sex over a night, four weekends). I have had a similar experience and then next time that I see my 'bus girl' I'm going to number close.

As with all time limits you can use it to your advantage, when you are having an interesting conversation say;
"(Excuse/ apology) I am getting off soon, give me your number and I will call you sometime."

Don't ask, command and hand your phone over as if she has already agreed. Never promise to call at a specific time, say that you will call sometime or whenever so she feels like she has to work for your interest.

Hope it goes well, I will also post my bus number close when I see the girl again.

Luck,

Sherlock

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