Hey, guys! A question for you. So here's the thing... I study abroad and I'm coming back to my home country in like 2-3 weeks for a few days. There's this girl back there that I really like. We haven't seen each other more than 2-3 times, but last time I went back home (which was like 3 weeks ago) I kissed her and that happened the night right before I left. We're chatting on facebook while I'm away and she still seems very interested. How should I approach her when I get back home in order to get something more than a kiss from her?
Thanks.

Don't worry about holding attraction. Attraction is something you have. It isn't something people give you. It's universal. If you have more attraction than the other person, they will be more drawn to you than you are to them. It's how it works.

You don't have to do anything. You should also continue to live as a single man and not worry about girls leaving you. 2-3 dates says nothing about a person. If you let her go, you're saying "thats okay I can find many other girls I will like after 2-3 dates. You want a girl you like after a year. You want to make sure the girl actually likes you and isn't solely hanging on for emotional need.

You don't want to be someone's emotional crutch. It's unhealthy and a burden on both parties.

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You've kept in contact with her so you are not magically reappearing to chill with her. Should be pretty easy.
Eh, you don't have much to worry about with this. You maintained contact with her.

Not sure where you're staying, but you could always invite her back to your car, hotel, apartment to "look at photos from study abroad" -- women love foreign sh*t. Or you could bring an interesting "item" from abroad such as a rock that they used to build an important monument, etc. It'll be your excuse to invite her over to look at it so she's alone.

Don't kiss her on the date when you're out. If you kiss her and then say let's go back to my place, it's pretty clear what's next. Wait.

When you get home:
1) While she's standing by a window, sitting down, or something touch her casually. see how she responds
2) Get her to the couch (if you haven't already), touch her thigh while talking/laughing (basically something more intimate)
3) Wait a bit, and then go for a kiss at the right moment.
4) Once your tongue is down her throat. I don't need to tell you what to do next..

Good luck!

Thanks! This seems helpful!