Hey guys, so there's a HB 8 at work who was my friend's distant cousin that was coincidently sitting beside me. She came to work an hour after myself as I started at 2pm and she started at 3pm. BTW, so this girl I've seen before and like I decide to actually talk to her. She is good friends with another HB 9 that I'm cool with.

HB walks by me and we have eye contact and acknowledged each other. She came and sat down on her seat turned on her computer.

Me: Hey is there an open socket to charge my phone ( I actually didn't have any sockets in my corner)

HB: Uh sure, let's see. Here is one.

I go by and plug my charger and phone and sit back down.

Me: You're *HB9 name* friend right?

HB: Yeah

Me: I don't think we've formally met, by name is Preshan. * offer firm handshake*

HB: Oh hey, nice to meet you.

Me: Are you *friend's name* cousin?

HB: Not really, but he did live at my sisters place for school.

Me: Where do you go to school?

HB: *School name

Me: What are you taking in school?

HB: Communications

Me: Oh okay, you're in the same program as *HB 9 name?

HB: Yup

Me: Were you and external hiree or and internal hiree?

HB: I've been here the same time as * HB9 name* .. what about your self?

Me: Since 2011

HB: Oh okay, why are you sitting here ( I work from home so I had to take a vacant computer seat)

Me: I work from home and have a manager meeting.

HB: Oh okay, how are you liking from working from home?

Me: It's good.

*I then make a call to my friend about getting invited to a yacht party for a girls birthday and I was talking with projection and then I hear her on the phone talking to her friend* Perhaps coincidental?

The convo died and I left for the meeting. After an hour the meeting, HB leaves her handbag but goes and sits with another friend that was on the same team as her. I kept it cool, talked to a woman near me and the other dude.

I then msg the HB9 on the office communicator and go and see her. She looked good (had a BF). Flirted with her for a bit and she took the flirting positively. and went away to see another mate of mine. I then see that HB from earlier go to her and talk to her and couple times stared back in my direction looking at me . Of course I was seeing this in the corner of my eye and continued my conversation. She walked by me after , but I didn't even acknowledge her presence.

Now I forgot my phone charger by her desk as its still plugged in the socket by her work station and I didn't build enough rapport to snag her #.

How should I approach her now? Should I email her telling her to keep the phone charger with her and when I'm in next go by compliement her , get her # and charger?

I'm new this site guys and this is my official first opener after reading various threads on this forum.

Any advice, critique would be greatly appreciated brothers

What did I mess up with? What did I do well in?
And for my errors, what exactly should be my next step? How should I approach her?

Wow dude. You REALLY need to go and approach way more girls, because all this is is a normal, friendly conversation. You used absolutely zero pick up material or techniques. You need to tease her, maybe do a role play, then try to qualify etc etc.

If you're new to pick up thats fine, but you have to actually try to apply pick up techniques next time you talk to a girl. And don't just wait for girls to fall into your lap; actually GO and approach girls to get your practice in.

What you did well was naturally open and transition into a conversation. But after that, you just had a simple conversation that went nowhere.

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I'm no PUA expert my self but this guy is absolutely right.

Oh okay . Now can I still go up to her try picking her up? Or is just a dead case now that I've screwed up?

Any tips on what I should tell her next time?

Yeah, you can definitely still try to pick her up. You didn't really screw anything up necessarily, you just didn't DO anything to make her attracted to you.

Next time you see her, you just have to start from the beginning as far as pick up is concerned. You can tease her "Haha you're such a dork. I love it" Thats just a simple teasing push-pull line. Stuff like that is light and easy for beginners to use. If you're feeling a little more ballsy, you can try something like "Oh my god, your last boyfriend totally didn't spank you enough. "

Then you can try a role play. Something like "You're pretty cool. I'm gonna run away to island in the middle of nowhere and sit on the beach and drink margaritas everyday. You can come with me and be my partner in crime. We'll get married under the moonlight and live happily for a couple years and then get divorced and have an INTENSE custody battle. It'll be awesome Actually, I'll let you keep the kids. I'm taking the dog and the yacht that P Diddy gave us as a wedding present"

Then, try to qualify her. Find out things about her and when she says stuff you like, tell her you like those qualities and explain WHY you like those qualities. (A brief one or 2 sentence explanation is usually fine). Thats qualification. Theres plenty more info about qualification on this forum and online. If your interested further, PM me and I'll send you an audio I made about qualification.
As far as day game is concerned, you usually only need a little bit of attraction and then you can start doing qualification.

Oh and btw, DON'T don't talk on the phone about getting invited to a yacht party like you did last time. Those types of techniques usually make you seem try hard.
When I talked about the yacht and P Diddy in the role play above, its supposed to be a JOKE. I'm NOT trying to make the girl actually think that I know P Diddy or could possibly have yacht AT ALL.

And to reiterate my point from earlier, GO and approach other girls. Feel free to try out some techniques on this girl, but you also just have to get your practice in, so you can get the rhythm down and the WAY to say and use these techniques. When you're first learning this stuff, all you're doing is practicing. You are NOT trying to pick up girls. Just have the mentality of "I want to practice my techniques."

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Thanks there mate for really breaking it down and giving the overview. I will start again.

That was just too polite. I almost started grinding my molars out of embarrassment for you.

I wouldn't game at work. It's never a good idea to shit where you eat. I DO practice at work, however. Just maybe a retool.

You: "I need somewhere to stick this." playful smile, two second delay, "that sounded bad." Haha

She turns around, you're holding your phone and smirks or laughs, "I think there's something over there."

Plug it in. "You're friends with blah blah blah."

"Yeah. How do you know her?" Ignore the question.

You: "You're trouble. Anyone who hangs out with blah blah blah is someone I have to watch out for."

She smirks or giggles "Why is that?"


See the slant? You're basically having the same conversation, but with a twist.

Hey man I'm new to this too but I'll give you my two cents.

It sounds like you didn't really do anything to make yourself stand out to her, didn't leave her wanting more. You sound like a guy who's fun to just chat with but not anything I'd chase after. The pua is the exception to the rule, you are the one showing her how different you are to the boring guys she sees day to day. Have you tried the cube on her? Try it out, I tried it out for my first time today and everything people say about it is true.

Keep it up though bro every time someone is successful it makes me have hope for myself. Critic (constructively of course lol) my field report that I just put up if you can, I need the advice.