Hey this is my first post!

So basically I have noticed that bigger groups of girls (5-6) will all get into a super tight circle on the dance floor of a club when they are out dancing together. I hate this!

How the hell am I supposed to open when:

a) I can't make effective eye contact with any of the girls when they are positioned like this and
b) I can't say anything that they will hear because of the load music

Any ideas???

This is where body language and proximity will come into play. Get on the dance floor within their biew and start busting some moves. Heck get another girl to dance with you. The group of girls will see you and start preening. Pay attention to who preens the most and who has the strongest eye contact. Thats who is interested in u

Hey man

I hear what your saying about proximity and eye contact. If it is just 2 girls dancing with each other I can usually come in from the side, dance a little, get some eye contact and shoot a smile. If she smiles back i know its on and i can start touching her a bit more while dancing, ask her name and go from there.

The trouble is with bigger groups there is no easy entry into the group because the group as a whole is closed off.

I am experimenting with sticking my feet right next to the target girl's heels hoping my feet will get stepped on and I can play it up! 9 times out of 10 they while turn around and apologize (if they are a decent person).

You have the right idea, but you missed the part where i said you go out and grab their attention and then they come to you. I speak from experience. It works. If that group doesnt try to get your attention, another will. But you should have a warm smile on your face anyway because your dancingand having fun. Your smile will be a subconcious invititation to the girls attracted to you. Another part of club game is confidence. Know when she is close enough and waitin for you to approach. In this case you grab her by the elbow area (sensitive area for kino that women barely reject) and approach on the side opposite of which she is holding her purse. Or dance close and do a booty bump. If she reciprocates or plays along, laughs, or any ioi, go in for the dance. Be the one to eject and b4 you do, spark a convo

Girls go to a club with other girls so they can dance with their girlfriends and not other guys. There are exceptions but this is generally the case. Othewise they show up with a mixed group, like you should be doing. The bar area is where the talking goes down. You can flirt it up at bars in the area and end up in the club later on. Tell the girls you meet beforehand to meet you there later and since you've broken the ice they'll dance with you.

Once you have preselection on the dance floor you will be in a great vibe and end up dancing with whoever. Sometimes I will dance with some lowbies and work my way up in the ranks gradually. Dance floor game is a high difficulty playing field which allows for itself the fastest physical escalation. If you do it right you can finger girls on the dance floor and leave with them without saying a word; not knowing her name or giving out yours.

If you are going for cold dance floor approaches, focus on having a good time. Let the girls be comforted by your assertive presence and amused by your dance moves. Once girls are more comforted they will give you eye contact. Eye contact is permission. If you go into the dance floor and immediately go for girls, they might see it as confident, but you risk blowing out the room. If you get rejected on an initial cold dance floor approach, try dancing alone for a bit and enjoy yourself before re-entering.

DO NOT BE THE GUY WHO STANDS THERE STARING AT GIRLS. THAT IS DESPERATE. DO NOT BE DESPERATE.

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Alright mate... you have quite a few options... one is to spend time in your bedroom learning a dance move for you to pop out that will be amusing (some of my friends do a running man with a sexy twist/ jackson moves etc.) you could potentially even burst into the middle and do it for max risk:max reward...

One funny option that i use frequently is to slut drop the girl hahaha but when you do it don't even look at her afterwards... some ignore it, but some even go as far to turn around and say "have you just slut dropped me :S"... its funny, especially when all your mates laugh and she might even feel the butt of the joke, lowering her self-esteem just for you ... jokes i would obvs not suggest lowering her self-esteem

another thing to think about... at some point, they are going to need to go to the bar... bar openers... just be aware that you need to interact, and have the approval of at least most of the group... unless she is quite isolated...

if you want to be a dick... dance crazily behind them, accidentally "spill" some drink on one of them... then apologise and ask if she would like to come the bar with you... if she fucking tells you to go the bar for her, then leave her, the worst thing that can happen is she comes looking for you and self-isolates herself

Your game drips with lack of confidence.

People with confidence don't have to down other people to lift themselves up. Why spill a drink on a girl? Why call her a slut? There are more effective ways to pick up on the dance floor without being an asshole.

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Hey man, that last part isn't my game hence the "if you want to be a dick..."... just laying the options out there for him...

And you have completely misunderstood the slut drop... it's a fucking dance move you tool

Ummm theres no game in this. Just douchbag 101 techniques.. Only thing you will get from those routines is a slap in the face lol.

I can tell you now that i have never been slapped in the face or had a drink threw on me in a club

I have heard someone suggest spilling a little drink on her shoe before and that's where i was going with that... i'm new here so all of this is just my 2 cents

As for the having a funny dance move ready... that is always good in a club when you can't talk on the dance floor because it will get you positive attention and social proof...

approaching some chicks when they go the bar?.. why wouldn't you

And as for the slut drop thing... i have field tested the shit out of that and i have never once had a bad reaction... EVER!

Game other girls OFF the dance floor. Own the room.

Be seen by the girl that you want. Preselection will draw her towards you. Wait til they get off the dance floor. Running game on the dance floor just makes things that much more difficult. The music is louder. She is distracted by all the movement.

Girls have the attention span of a second grader. You better be DAMN interesting if you are going to take her away from dancing with her friends... otherwise she will move onto the next shiny object.

You're right to game a girl effectively you want her off the dance floor... so if your sarging that's definitely what you want to do... but I often go out for fun and getting a girl is secondary so i tend to be on the dance floor.

Be seen by the girl that you want... If you have a small entertaining dance that you can pull off for one particular song that you can request, then that might just make her notice you

waiting until they get off the dance floor... again i agree, often it is to go the bar