Ok so we're both 16 and we go to the same high school, i saw her on facebook and tought id have my try at her, help me find a way to get a date or just a hangout with her

The obvious answer is to ask her out. I know thats not the tip you were looking for, but it does answer the question. The only way to get a date is to ask for it.

But at the same time, asking her out makes you look needy, projects interest too soon, and
puts the pressure on her.

You want to make it easier for her. Have a friend say "hey such and such i hear is a great movie, you two should go see it.

This way you didnt ask, your rejection wont sting as much cause your friend suggested it, not you.

Chances are she wont answer, and just stop talking. But it's a win win, you can't possibly come out scarred.

What can she say " hell noo I dont want to go out with you" you just have to say "hey wait a minute honey, i never said a word he did, get over yourself"

Win Win