Hey guys,

I’ve been active on this forum for a while but never felt the urge to make an account since I always found the information I needed.

Now, I’m in a difficult spot myself, and I come to you for advice.

The last 2 months I have been fooling around a bit with a HB8. We always saw eachother in the club, and every time we ended up kissing (she’s a really good kisser). We went for lunch a couple of times and sent a lot of text messages, however, I have never had sex with her.

I recently met one of her best friends, a HB9, and I really like her. I think she knows I find her attractive but we have never had a real conversation yet. What do you guys think I should do, knowing that I have been fooling around with her best friend. I know she’s that type of girl who doesn’t want a man who has been kissing her best friend, and I also have the reputation of a player in their group of friends..

Thanks alot.

Crea.

the obvious solution here is a threesome, otherwise PICK ONE and go for it.
girls talk, especially best friends. so dont be a smart prick and try both secretly
you will end up with neither or a massive shit fight

later down the track you can do the other if it comes to that.

Hmm

okay ...

let me think

...

You have a good conversation with the Hb8 (texting etc). And you kissed her best friend, a hb9 right ?

soo whats the problem ?

Take the HB9, get laid, and go ahead ? - We are PUAs

cheers

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Being a smartass doesn't work when you don't read correctly, he hasn't even spoken with the HB9, let alone kiss her.

Onto your question, unless you're 100% sure you can get HB9, stick with HB8.

You said it yourself, she doesn't like fooling around with you since you are already doing that with HB8, you might risk losing both while you do like HB8 as a person. Is that worth it?

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