hey guys.. i'm from the US and studying abroad in europe. in bars, i am fine with opening girls and have a higher success rate, but my friends and i usually end up in clubs at the end of the night, and i don't have a high success rate there.

my confidence is always super high, but what i think messes me up is my looks. i'm not a good looking guy, so i rely heavily on my game. in a club SPAM where the music is loud, it's hard to rely on my game, and i have trouble picking up girls.

any advice? i normally just have the best time possible and sometimes girls pick up on my vibe, but it's not as often as i'd like it to be. i also sweat really easily, which messes me up when i'm dancing with a girl. anyone else encounter this problem?


thanks

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- Michael Jordan

Just start dancing with her. Don't ask for it, just do it.
Eye contact is very important too.

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