| Hey guys,
Introduction
I am new to the PUA scene, but I do have a select opener I like to use when opening a 1-2 set. It's not particularly effective on more than 2 in my experience. Also, I won't use it if i know the girl has a major bitch shield or princess complex, it works best on girls that are playful (note: this isn't to say that it doesn't work on HB10's, just feel the vibe when you actually open the set that they seem playful enough to be receptive.) Just to clarify, this is in no way my opener (it's Cajun's from Keys to the VIP) but I've tweaked it to my liking. And I'm in NO way a pro at this, just thought I'd share.
Context to opener
The opener itself is so indirect/ situational that the girls won't see it coming..but it's all about DELIVERY. You have to say it in a way which generates shock value to the set, as well as drawing the humour on to yourself. Times in which I've hesitated or been nervous, or done it like a canned opener I've crashed and burned. So it's really high risk/ high reward. But, if you deliver correctly and with total conviction, you essentially eliminate the risk.
The opener
Me: Woah guys, serious question OK...I NEED your help with something (Say it with a big smile, a lot of energy and a face like: HAHA OMG I CANNOT EVEN BELIEVE IT)
Her: *Look of curiousness* OR *What is it?*
Me: OK, these two girls just asked me if I have any weed...Do I look like a drug dealer? *Try to kino by touching them both, if you touch 1 alone it can backfire if you block her friend out, but you can touch 1 if you sort of keep the 3-way circle open and inclusive if it's a 2-set.*
At this point, if they seem really intrigued, I'll milk the comedy but not the opener e.g. It's the start of the night, I can't go around looking like a drug dealer, I'm a vain person... some shit like that
Her: a) *laughs and comforts you that you don't*
b) Agrees with you and milks the joke - the best one as you now have a range of options to follow and essentially, the set is yours
c) Totally WTF's you? what a weirdo - rare but normally happens on a bad delivery or if I come across as hesitant
What next?
Well, from here, the floor is yours. Me? I'll take a number of routes:
a) Mock them and maybe do a disqualify/qualifier like 'well, that's a shame, because you could have been my partner in crime tonight'
b) Cold read them if they're non-playful, but receptive - something like...'let me guess, *point at A* you're the good one and you're the bad one *point at B*
c) If really receptive I'll try and rapid escalate by doing something like an ESP routine, or the Styles question game.
Enjoy!
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