| With that mindset you're bound to get rejected anyways. Don't care about approaching girls, don't care about impressing that friend. Because it seems like you're really trying to impress the guy.
Getting rejected is only real rejection if you make it one, it's not like the girls are going to point fingers at you and laugh at the fact that you're trying to pick them up. Even if they do, I doubt your friend could possibly be such an asshole to tell everyone about that big of a rejection.
The worst that could happen is that she says that she isn't interested. Unless he never has something better to do, he won't even mention it, who cares that not every single woman wants you. There are plenty that do. And in order those people, you have to approach. And if he thinks that's lame, just tell him it's his turn and ask the 'master' to enlighten you. If he refuses, you can just tell the group he was too scared to try it himself.
All you have to do is simply don't give a shit. Go out there and have fun, and your friend will join you, unless he wants to feel like a boring bystander.
But honestly I think it's better to try and find time to go alone first, if he doesn't want to go, it's better not to force him because he might as well set you back.
Good luck, and have fun! _________________ As long as there is mystery, there will be questions. As long as we see fit, they will stay unanswered.
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