I am the type of guy where if the girl initiates the approach and such then I'm pretty much good to go. However my main problem when gaming is approaching girls I find attractive and getting them comfortable enough to have a good conversation and keeping that conversation going so I can kino and escalate.

Talking to my female friends today about a couple girls I've been seeing recently who are turning out to be a bit mental. She along with other girls have said the usual "I dont understand why you dont have a girlfriend you should go for the nice girls compared to the mental slaggy slutty girls."

I would fucking LOVE to have a relationship with a nice quiet girl compared to some loudmouth slut but its harder for me to build comfort with the nice lovely girls because they always either

A) Don't act interested when I approach.
B) Are too shy/awkward to have a conversation.

How is this fixable/how can I improve the initial game to get these girls talking.

I've also gone down a list of things that I've needed to improve with my life to become more attrative. I have gotten myself into university and doing a good degree to get a good job. I have lost ALOT of weight from school as I was bullied so I got nothing back then. I work out doing pressups, weights and planks to keep myself looking slightly toned, I have a big knob and never selfish in the bedroom department. Infact I fucking love seeing a girl barely able to move after sex.

My one BIG problem is the approach.

You need to set the frame when you approach and just pretend you haven't noticed their reticent nature and keep talking as if they are a lifelong friend. Tyler Durden calls this "barrelling through" and it does work. The shy girl sees it as she has been approached, screened and accepted and eventually a conversation will ensue.