Hi All

Basically long story short. I have been a member of this forum for a while now, and always reading. However, it has only been over the past few days that I have decided I want to go through with picking up women

Today was my first test. Going to the Gym. There was a HB7, who is a member of staff. Upon walking into the Swimming arena she was fidiling with some control on the wall and I walked past and entered the door next to her into the jucuzi open area (has sauna, steam room in there etc)

During the 30 minutes I was in there, she came in and out cleaning and washing windows, all i saw was a load of guys basically just staring at her, but know one was man enough to make a move, unfortunately that also included me. After when it was closing everyone got out of the jucuzi, and i was the last one out. Again I walked past her, exited and went to the changing rooms

Now this is where i need your opinions. What would you have done? Should I have said something instantly when I first saw her outside the area? Such as 'that doesnt look like work your doing to me'? And then again approached her at the end? I feel that maybe i lost the chance from the beginning when I first saw her, and as time went on my mind was holding me back. Would you also 'chase' women with your eyes constantly trying to get them to look at you? I could have easily carried on staring at her during her work, but would that have not come off a bit creepy?

The other thing I was wanting to mention, is what peoples takes are on trying to pick up a girl from a Gym that they go to daily, and also their place of Work? I am not talking about a relationship, I am talking about flirting and leading them straight into sex

Thanks

i relate to your situation.
i used to spent most of my time reading posts on the forum of this and other sites.
but usually the information fades off if you dont actually use it..
i mean i have read various books from different methods and at times i find myself in the same situation where i know
i have to stand out and make a conversation with her but hesitate at the last moment..
i mean i have read alot to know what ineed to do but just dont do it...


anyway... i also go to the gym and i see that alot creepy dudes never saying a word to the chicks that workout/work there.
you need to smile first of all,
in your case i would of walk by her while she was cleaning the windows and would of said "oh your doing the Mr. Miyagui workout, its actually two to the right and two the left" make sureyou say it playfully. other wise it may come off badly.
assuming she will get what you mean and laugh, you can then ask her name and move to a new thread.
if she doesnt get it. you can tease her for it. and still ask for her name and move to a new thread..

personally i try to keep the conversation short with people that are working because at any moment they may leave. so when i see them again i will continue from where i left off and built more attraction to get their number or find a time to meet up or instantly move to a date.

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Space.volt

Tbh, it is best to practice as much as you can I have heard and analyse what you have done and apply necessary theories. What is detrimental is taking too much theory in, so i've heard.

I love Spacevolts suggestion,


Use that, see how it works, playful is the best way to come off as "non threatening". Realize that beautiful woman in these settings get approached by D-bags all the time, you have to be different. Good luck, I'd love to see how it went.

-TA