Ok so last night i was with 2 friends at a resturant/bar and we noticed a new waitress in training. So i ask our actual waitress who is the new girl..

basicially our waitress asked the new trainee chick if she was interested in me and she came back and said she thinks im cute. so later that night i write my number on a napkin and introduce myself. about 40 min later our waitress and the new trainee and me and my boys all take shots together and i talk to the trainee chick for about 5 min about getting to know her, she has a lil kid but i dont care.. this was last night and she didnt text or anything since so im not sure if she was actually interested or hesisitant on giving numbers out.

i found her on this dating website called pof this afternoon and i wrote her saying "hey its raf from last night. how was ur shift and that her kid was cute."

did i mess up by writing her online the next day? if a week passes and she never calls or text me should i go back to that place a week later and sit down and see whats going on?

Dont be a misquito an buzz around her online or on the phone. That will fuck it up. I would get in a really good looking state of mind an catch her at work again an see if you can start up another convo. Ask her when shes not working and when she wants to visit you at your work, or something sly like that. Get her out of the work environment and meet her for coffee or drinks or a juice box depending on how young she is.

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"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

Phone game generally sucks..

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Yea, you screwed up. Don't talk about the kid until you actually meet it. You came across as needy to begin with, then you made it worse by texting and pm'ing her online. What you need to do now is find another girl and take her to the restaurant and sit in this waitresses section. You're out wining and dining women, and she's slinging grits and taking care of her baby daddy's rug rat. Who's got more value now?

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Yeah thats the win, Puaninja you nailed that one.

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Why guys and girls don't mesh.

"Chicks are crazy and guys are dumb." Chinopants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=en ... a_Nno&NR=1

Puaninja- that sounds like a plan lol