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Thanks, sincerely. I was accusing y'all guys of obfuscation for dodging the question of success rate
I will try it, starting tomorrow morning. The reason I ask is that I find day game approaches a lot more intimidating; I was trying to get a sense of how many approaches I'd have to do before getting a sense that I was "doing it right" or "doing it wrong."
if all you are concerned with is talking to less girls, and sleeping with more, then probably sleeping with 1 girl out of 10 would be having a tight game, some guys literally do 100s of approaches before they even get laid, also the problem with your success rate question is success is subjective to the person's goals, this may also seem sort of paradoxical, but one guy could get 9/10 phone numbers and leave his sets with warm feelings of acceptance and sleep with 0 girls, using a more friendly safe approach, while another guy could get 1/10 phone numbers, piss off a bunch of girls and be harshly rejected by most and end up banging one girl because he was just being extremely aggressive and persistent and wouldn't leave until a harsh rejection or sex, it really depends on how you view success, is success banging a hottie?, is success banging the most women possible?, is success finding an awesome girlfriend who totally matches you and is fun to be around?, is success finding bi-sexual girls for threesomes?, is success talking to less women before sex happens?, is success spending the least amount of time between lays?,
there are ways to improve your ''success'' based on your goals, but it really depends on what those goals are, in terms of pickup, I like to think if you actually are enjoying picking up girls and meeting them and the process is actually fun for you instead of some big stressful task, then you are successful, especially if you're meeting girls you like regardless of how other people judge them, if you're happy, that's all that really matters, more so then are other people impressed by you, or how quickly and safely can you get this over with, that sort of thinking just puts a whole bunch of pressure on you to reach an outcome and then you won't actually be enjoying your time with these girls and they'll sense the desperation and neediness from a mile away, just focus on making your task fun, easy, and requiring as close to 0 effort on your part as possible, if 0 effort to you is trying to develop a perfect approach and hanging in there as long as possible girl after girl after girl and trying to improve the perfect approach and sleep with them the same day, then do it up, if 0 effort for you is just making a million approaches and shooting out your little 3 sentence routine and following up on the numbers you got for dates, then do it up, what ever you enjoy doing man, just make sure you get out there and get to work if you're still single and you're not making at least 1 approach a day, you are seriously wasting your time
I understand what you're saying about getting started also, starting daygame is very intimidating, especially if you are not used to stating intent or feel like it's weird to just talk to someone you don't know during the day but you will get used to it, just have to do it alot more, once you get over the idea that it's just talking to girls and most of them appreciate being appreciated, you can start to just relax, stop worrying about the outcome, and have some fun with it and develop your own game