So, this was the first time I have ever met a girl and been able to kiss her in one night and I am so stoked. Not only did I use game techniques I picked up from mystery and the other big names, but I also incorporated a few I got from Sinn's Roadmap program (props, kinda. I'll elaborate.)
so, we threw a party for my friends birthday. Had a bunch of people over and I knew there was going to be a few single girls there - one of which, I was told was a "player" herself. Anyways, being that I do agree that a guy should never be just some average Joe, I went with what matches my background and overall look, which a cowboy of sorts: Hat, button up shirt, jeans, and I got myself a couple of leather and rope bracelets. I would consider this tactic to be both from Mystery (peacocking) and Sinn (sexual stereotype.) I also wore some aviators. Call me a douchebag, whatever, I pulled it off, so I really don't care lol
Anyway, my first approach I did was on a girl in a...5 set (maybe) 4 dudes and a her. She was a cute Mexican and black girl with a spaghetti strap and librarian glasses (talk about a sexual stereotype of her own.) They were all trying to get a game going, and, to be honest, I cannot remember how I opened, but after she told me her name, I replied, "I'm sorry, but I can't pronounce that." to which she laughed and said I could just call her Bree and that it was okay, because I was a white boy and...something about being bad with black names. So, I went back and forth with her for a while on teasing about each others race, which my PUA friend keeps telling me is taboo, but I've had pretty good results with. We then started playing this game with cards and a cup in the middle of them. Everyone took turns and as I would get my chance I would be sure to comment and tease, but also to take a moment on occasion to push her away. My favorite of which was when she made some comment that was slightly sexual and I playfully pushed her away with, "Whoa I don't know about this ebony and ivory thing. I think you need to slow down." Everyone laughed and she came right back at me.
After a few minutes, I snuck away to another room where I came across another girl: kinda cute, blonde, also had the librarian glasses (didn't realize that till now). While I wasn't particularly interested, I realized the opportunity for a jealousy plotline (yes, I know, not something for amateurs, but the opportunity was there, so I took it. And it worked...even though I didn't capitalize on it, which Ill explain in a bit[sorry this is such a long post, but I'm really excited about my first field report.]) So, after talking to her for a bit, I saw the so-called "player" sitting by herself on the couch, so I went over and plopped down next to her and I keep kicking myself for this, but I swear, for the life of me, I cannot recall how the hell I opened a single time. but, once I got going, I realized that a lot of the material I was using from sinn's roadmap, wasn't really working as well as I would have expected, BUT this could just be due to my lack of practice and familiarity. however, my own approach, which is specific to me, did seem to work quite well. I am lucky enough to have been able to study body language and facial expression and become quite good a it, so I can do a pretty good job at reading a person during a conversation and so, I've begun to ask certain questions as they present themselves, which people usually don't like to answer (nothing traumatic, I don't want to fuck things up, but usually something embarrassing) and then tell them about their reaction to the question. Usually, they begin to lie, which I quickly point out and then, when they try to defend themselves, I just go into a conversation about telling the truth and how it relates to a person being more interested in openly pursuing what they want in life as opposed to someone who lies and ends up having to go through all these hoops to pursue their ambitions. I really like to use "ambition" and "passion" when I'm in a conversation. but anyways, after about...20-30 mins of conversation, we go to my room, where I leave the door open and we start talking and she starts asking questions about all my shit and eventually I tell her this completely fabricated story about my bracelet, which almost immediately flipped an attraction switch in her head, because earlier, after we were in my room ( I know, Im skipping around - im still a little tipsy lol) I asked her, "do you want to kiss me?" not just as a shot in the dark, but because I knew she did and she just laughed and turned her head, then asked, "why, do you think I do?" and I said "yup" "why?" "because you didn't say no" and then I just laid back on my bed, with a smirk (awesome, I know[I'm really full of myself right now, if you couldn't tell lol]) and said, "but you can't have one." (not really. I WISH, I would have, because I would've probably got the kiss sooner.) anyways, I eventually tried to kiss her, but, instead of getting close first and then going in, I tried to come in from a distance and she pulled back (I know! I know better, but I was too in the moment and fucked up - BUT I recovered!) anways, fastforward back to the bracelet story, I just stopped trying to push things and laid back on the bed to talk and let her lay down next to me, across me (with her head up), then across me (head down next to mine), and, even after she told me she doesn't just kiss guys that easily and blah blah blah (bullshit), I got her to kiss me
(good? bad? probably more bad than good, but I enjoyed it) anyways, I got the kiss close, but didn't realize until it was too late that I forgot to get her number! who the fuck does that?
afterwards, I go back out to the now fizzled out part to find the friends of the girl I was first talking to (the Mexican and black girl) who proceed to tell me that she was so into me that she wasn't even using my name, but referring to me as her "fucking budy. But, she'd already taken off, because she'd seen me in my room with the other girl and figured I wasn't going to be coming back out (like I said, waste of jealousy plotline). and she did specifically mention to her friends that she was wanting to fuck and apparently was trying to find me and get my attention away from the other girls, so she could have her cowboy
And another note on the getup, one of the other girls, during a conversation after everything had cooled down, explicitly said that she didn't find a single other person at the party to be that interesting, but that the second she saw me, she thought I was interesting and mentioned the hat and the glasses. I ended up getting her number, and her friends (the girl who wanted her cowboy - yeah, she came back, but it was too late to escalate, so I took the numbers, said goodnight, got a kiss with them!!!!! and came to bed to write this. So, kisses, numbers, and, if the girl who I got in my room hadn't called her sister to come pick her up before I came along, I'm pretty sure I could've pulled off the one-night lay (yes, I know If I was good enough she would have just told her sister to leave without her, but I'm not that good - yet!)
Dog will hunt!
- Hound
CHAT
