| So yesterday while i was out. I run into a hot french 10 that i had recently talked to at the local mall. She works one of those stands that sells products in the mall. A met her about a month ago maybe. I’m not a plower so after she refused to give me her number, i soon would find out she wouldn’t give it because she wanted me to talk to her each time i visited the mall. The first time we spoke i opened her and introduced myself and i transitioned into conversation.
The next time she stopped me and i was with my wings, she acted extremely rude so i realized what she was doing, and showed her i wasnt a push over she could fuss too. So i walk off after that without saying by. My wing words where “I think she is attracted to you.” Well, i would soon find out she was. She was gaming me.
Yesterday i am out with some buddies and her stand had moved downstairs and so she spots me and makes i contact so i go over and she was with her fellow co-workers so after talk with them i knew i had to isolate her.
Me: “Hey, can you step over here real quick, i had a quick question about something.”
She looked at me with a sarcastic look..like she knew what i was doing. She did, but she came.
Her: “Okay, you better have something to show me.”
Me: “Okay i wanted to know are these the products you use on your hair.”
Her: ” Yeah, you can’t tell?”(Started to stroke her hair)
I had to neg her here to bring her down a notch. She was controlling the frame so i had to switch it and make her qualify and work for me.
Me: “Ha. No, i thought you used one of the cheap flat irons from the dollar store.”(Smile, to not seem rude)
Her: “Haha! omg, i cant believe you said that! Look at it.(Frame successfully flipped)
Me: “Yeah i see. Are you a Capricorn?”
Her: “No, why?”
Me: “I’m just wondering why we keep running into each other. Its weird.
Her: “I’m a virgo.”
Me: “Nice.(Smile)I’m a Capricorn!(I said it in a surprised way)
Her: “What? Are those two suppose to be compatible or something?”
Me: “Yeah, virgos are very analytical. I bet your mind is going 100mph right now. Probably thinking about us talking right now, selling your products, and God knows what else!(She began to smile)
Her: “Hahaha. Thats funny, because its true.”
Me: “Yeah virgos and Capricorn are very compatible. I’ve had some great girlfriends who were virgos. We make up for each other. Capricorns are more relaxed not over thoughtful, cool calm and collected. Virgos on the other hand are the thinkers and analyzers which makes up for the capricorns relaxed mentality. Capricorns make up for virgos ability to over think, by introducing a cool, interesting and relaxed mentality.”
Her: (Smile) “Wow! i never knew that. I don’t pay too much attention to astrology but i might start now, that’s really interesting. I have an uncle who is a capricorn but we don’t get along well.”
Me: “Thats because he is family. haha. You guys probably connect at the core but over the years family matters and situations have poisoned the relationship.”
Her: “Yeah that is true. You have a good point.”
I had reached the hooking point and it was time to close once and for all.
Me: “It also depends on a persons moon sign too. But hey i gotta get going im grabbing drinks with my friends in a few. Give me your number. Im leaving town for work soon and wont be here in the next few weeks”
Her: “Well just come and talk to me when you are here.”(Smile)
This when i realized it. This girl was using the fact that i wanted her number to keep me coming back. I had to show her i wasnt interested in her number alone but her, and if she wasnt willing to cooperate i was rolling without looking back.
Me: “I’m not talking to you anymore. Whats the point. Its pointless. We are friends, if friends can’t exchange numbers then whats the point of being friends.”
She looked at me as if she wanted to jump on me, as if she had been waiting for a guy to be willing to lose her even though she is extremely hot.
Her:(Smile)”Hold on!”
She goes and grabs a card from the other side of the stand.
Her: “Thats my number on the card. JUST FRIENDS THOUGH.(Smile).
I actually laughed at this, she wanted to validate herself for giving me her number by saying “friends” which was fine. We had a sexual connect and she knew it.
Me:” Ha. okay. I gotta get going.”
Her: “Okay cool!”(She reaches out her hand to shake mine)
I realized how awkward it would be just shaking her hand so i decided to turn it into a funny secret handshake. She told me she liked to dance earlier so i used a wave-like move in our handshake. She was cracking up and said it was dumb. I said Thats why its cool! Then she said do it again. I didn’t even remember it. She burst out laughing and i ejected. “Talk to you later” She waved bye as she still laughed and was filled with joy. I had made her day. I texted her earlier and heard back from her shortly after. I will probably talk to her later tonight. I wanted to point out how you must be willing to risk losing a girl especially 10s and 9s.
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