There's a woman who works out in my gym around the same time of night that I go and I've been lusting after her ever since I first saw her but until last night I've only watched her because she always has headphones on and so I figured she didn't want to be bothered. I usually try to work out on machines somewhat close to the ones she is on so that I can watch her in case she ever took her headphones off.

Last night, when I was watching her on the exercise bike, she took her headphones off for the first time and so I interrupted my jog on the treadmill and walked right over. Instead of introducing myself and giving a compliment, I instead chose to show a sense of humor so I made a flirtatious comment about her workout pants to make her laugh but with the line I used, I also got through the message that I'm sexually attracted to her. She did laugh but instead of sticking around, I told her to enjoy the rest of her workout and went back to mine (I did this because there was some awkwardness due to me interrupting her workout and I didn't want to "overstay" my welcome). I noticed her later in the evening and was going to approach a second time but didn't want to come on too "strong" so I resisted and went back to try and finish my workout.

The problem that I have is that even though I broke the ice with her as far as approaching her and saying something, and even though I got her to laugh and know that I'm interested, because she went right back to her workout, I don't know if she's interested or not.

The question I have is: should I just say "hi" and try to talk to her a bit in the gym every time I see her for the next few times before asking for her # or should I just ask for it the next time I see her? Since she's always wearing her headphones, I don't see how I can get much of a conversation in. How do you guys handle talking to women in the gym wearing headphones?

To be Honest am in 5 times a week and tend to ignore every1 when am there but a great Indirect kind of flirty roleplay opener would be to say "is that you stalking me again?" or something just be aware of your tone so it comes off sarcastic.
Also even if its just sarcasim its an opening to show if shes single or not! If you want to be less flirty ask if she does any of the classes at your gym.

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You can't keep waiting for her to take her headphones out or worry about interrupting her workout. People in gym's listen to music. It's what they do. But if I've got my headphones in and someone wants to know if I'm using a certain piece of equipment, they don't wait for me to take my headphones out. They just ask, and if I don't hear them at first, I take my headphones out so I can listen. Just don't worry about things like that.

And don't worry about interrupting her workout or anything. Obviously when someone is in the middle of a set they probably are more focused on the exercise. Wait till she's between sets.

Although be careful at the gym. The gym I go to has a big sign advising guys not to use the gym as a pickup spot. Just use judgement and discretion.

The gym is for self-improvement time, not sarging
But if you're not getting approached at the gym by girls, you're clearly not a sick knt yet

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