I have approached many girls from last two months but mostly when they were alone or no one was nearby. But in crowded places like crowded streets, railway station, subways, bus stand(if crowded) etc. I get freaked out by fear of people watching me. How can i overcome this.

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AA whats that ?

There is really no special secret here. It will always be awkward. The best thing

you can do is still act comfortable and normal despite all of those people watching

you. You can even make a joke to the girl how now there is so much tension in the

buss But the best way is to act like you dont feel it, embrace it- life is awkward...

Ow, and keep it short and simple. A tram is really not a good place to be a clown,

just introduce yourself, a little chit chat and ask for the number.

Like this:

I like that shirt, the collore is cool.
- tnx
What do you studdy?/You go with this bus every day?/where you going?
- Im studying economy

Now its time to shut up. And see if she continues the conversation. If she asks you

where youre going or what youre studying or anything then you continue. But

keep it short and casual. If on the other hand

she doesent ask you anithing after that, she is not interested. Thats good, dont

force it.

And thats it, dont force the interaction but iniciate

approach anxiety.. . what helps me alot is the 3 second rule.. approach right away.. another thing that helps me is knowing if i make a complete idiot out of myself ill never see those people who are watching ever again and if i do they wont remember..... \


you miss 100 percent of the shots you dont take

Haha!

Its funny you mention that because i use to be the EXACT same way. When i was on my way home from work i use to get freaked out about talking to a HB in fear of people watching me.

I soon realized that these people don't really give a fuck. They have their own lives, and things to worry about, not some guy trying to talk to a HB on the train. They may look just to see how you approach or what you say because they don't have the balls to do it and probably never have.

So its just approach anxiety that everyone gets. Worried about if someone is watching. You can only break this by jumping in and going for it. Start approaching in crowded places, to get yourself use to it. This is how i got good at it. Ive been coldly rejected in crowds of people before, when people were watching. I just laugh and usually keep it moving. I've got rejected in the middle of a crowded mall, etc. it just makes you fearless because the worst thing that can happen when approaching a female is being rejected. So when you get rejected in public, it helps ALOT.

So try it.

Sluggler

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