So, I thought of, what I thought, was a pretty good variation on the old gay shirt question. After asking, odds are she'll say "No, it doesn't make you look gay."

To me, this is a perfect set-up for something like, "Yeah, a guy hit on me earlier and I was just wondering if I looked the part. I was flattered, but that's not my kind of party. (laugh)"

I dunno, maybe it's all wrong, but I feel like not only does it show that you're desirable to some degree (even if by just a gay bloke) and that you're sensitive to the homosexual issue and aren't offended or repulsed by being hit on by one. I think being sensitive to gays is a very Alpha thing... what man who is secure with his sexuality goes around being scared of another man because he's gay? I'm completely comfortable with joking about it as long as everyone's aware that I am, in fact, joking. Because I know who I am and what I like.


Thoughts?

I agree with you. You are an alpha if you accept everyone in your tribe!

I have two gay friends, (brothers) and they are in a rock band, not girly at all, BEST WINGS EVER!
haha

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