Met a guy yesterday at a Ars amorata seminar. He got rid of approach anxiety by using NLP Neuro Linguistic Programming. (programming your mind to get the results you want).

So he apparently went out there and approached so many woman with no fear. He ended up with no results so he uesd NLP again to get his fear back. I've seen him approach he's did well.
I also met other peaple in the seminar who had met peaple who have no approach anxiety they also had no/little results.

The reason why is because they had no emotion what so ever. If you're happy towards a pearson they will be ok/happy towards you. Same if your arrgresive/nervous you will get the same back. So when these peaple approached woman they were dead inside. Imagine saying to a woman "You look really nice," but with zero emotion that will make the woman uncomfortable right?

So fear is actually a usefull tool it helps us to make desicions but we can be our own worst enamy by exagerating to much about the fear. We also can be to focused on the wrong thing e.g failure.

When it comes to being sucessful at night or in the day or online isn't it down to what you think about yourself? Not what technique or method is best used to approach a woman or what that woman will think about you? In otherwords self esteem.
For me I have less anxiety when approaching nowadays that's enough for me.

Any opinions/ thoughts/ questions?

Mark

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you can use nlp to destroy your personality? that is pretty crazy. i am gonna have to read a book on nlp. i think sometime it more have to have fear and feeling. ahhaha

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I do not know the full details about how he did it all he told me at the time that there was a lot of visualisation involved.

You never know may be he did the process wrong, may be he visualised the wrong things, said the wrong words.

Be very carefull when you use this stuff like I wrote earliar the guy managed to get his fear back.

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Without knowing exactly what you're doing, dabbling in mental anchors whether via NLP or hypnosis is a dangerous practice. Your brain tends to take things literally. Also that fear is something that unless debilitating, should likely be left in place. If it doesn't visually effect your game, then leave it alone. For me, that few seconds of approach anxiety provides me with a sense of excitement. Without it, the game would just be too easy, and perhaps even boring.

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