ok, so you made eye contact, you approach, she accepts, you use a in/direct opener,
now im stumped, i have no problem getting to this point but then i freeze and ask fucking stupid boring questions like, what do you do? where u from? blah blah..

any tips what subjects to talk about, or funny ways to convo, or any areas to read into to have a supply of good convos.

Cheers,

Boyo

i'm not the best for this, but I give you some advice that works for me.
Don't go in with the idea: I need to game her.
Just talk with her to have a fun time, it will go automatic after that (if shes not boring, if she is boring you dont even want her).

But to give you some ideas I usually talk about drugs (usually XTC lol), festivals, parties. But thats basicly what my life is about (im not a drug addict whatsoever, not promoting it either), so it might not work for you.

Talk about something that happened to you that day, day before that, something you are gonna do soon, ask her what her favorite first date was (you can even mention that you got one soon and you never like first dates etc. to dhv).

I usually always start with a question and build from there.
For example, thursday I went out and saw a girl sitting on a staircase and I just went to her:

me: Sup?
her: nm, you?
me: nm either, kinda bored. Ever took xtc in your life?
her: yeah, blablabla, (she mentioned a party), blablabla
me: oh awesome, i went to this party before and took it for first time, it was awesome
her: haha i remember my first time, this and this happened.

And no, I didn't think of the opener before I approached her, I really approached her cause I lost my friends and was bored to death, I didnt wait 5 min to think of an opener etc, just went there and said first thing that popped up (sup), then she replied I answered and asked something and from there on build a convo.

Completely agree mate,

thinking about it now, its easy to mention anything, but i cant get over this moment of freezing, brain dead, by the time i do mention something, or think of a convo, the confidence and opportunity is gone haha, she probably thinks what a stuttering idiot.

However, this could be down to me, and the image of myself, i may feel like its been a century, and i look stupid pausing but in fact its a perfectly reasonable amount of time: any ideas how to overcome this?


Cheers,

Boyo

I don't really get what you mean.
Just go out and try it. Your mind is playing games on you SPAM (because you keep making up excuses not to do it, at least thats what it looks like to me). Just go out, fail hard and learn from it man!

You got nothing to lose, you only got something to gain from approaching a girl, so it doesn;t matter if you fail!

Well, textbook gaming says you need a transition phase. There are videos on YouTube in wich Lovedrop talks about this, on a chanel called Leorios77. Just say something like: "You remember me of my friend Sarah... the other day we blah blah blah..." and then interrupt and stack forward to the next routine. What you need is a way to continue talking to her without conveying that you want her, while demonstrating higher value. Thats transitioning phase, my friend!

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