Hey guys,

Ive copied this straight out of my field report, so give that a read for the full story,
but to the point here's the juicy bit:

"How i did it was this:
I went to House of Fraser, (shop) and picked out the first 5+ girl i could see, and i merely asked where the men's clothes department was, she directed, smiled at each other and i left.
- a completely innocent question with no intention of pulling her.

Funnily enough, i had no problem saying hello to her, speaking to her, smiling or asking questions. Why? - because i didnt have it on my mind that i was interesting in her or getting her number.

- i remembered that feeling - or the lack of it i should say of any anxiety.
I told myself the next girl i want to talk to, ill be completely innocent about it, and talk to her just to find out about her, just like asking for directions.

The next girl that made eye contact with me and smiled, i walked back after.

i said: "hi, my names XXX, i saw you walking by and i thought you looked really nice, i had to come back and say hi, and find out your name.
we talked back and forth for a bit, and well i did get her name but not her number.. she said she had a boyfriend and walked off..."

So if your struggling give this a try!

Edit: any further breakthroughs ill put on the field report, dont want to fill this thread with every success

Cheers,

Boyo

Good job getting out there. When you have the "results" of the pickup on your mind things get incredibly harder. When you are out there just having a good time, and just focused on meeting people...and not the end result, then things tend to get easier for you to do.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Well they say the best way to pickup is to act/look like your not trying to pickup.

Simple statement, but hard to pull off cause most hot women know you want to hook up anyway.

So it might not be just a matter of not screwing up by putting pressur eon yourself, but a matter of the woman thinking you are needy and must hook up that moment.

"act like you've been there/done it before" you hear that comment all the time for many things.

Thanks for the comments guys,

You both summed my post up pretty well, going out there, speaking to a girl you genuinely like, and want to get to know, makes it much easier than going out intending to pull and be a "PUA"

Regards to all,

Boyo

You both summed my post up pretty well, going out there, speaking to a girl you genuinely like, and want to get to know, makes it much easier than going out intending to pull and be a "PUA"