I met a girl twice over the past 3 months at various parties. Not real deep conversation, but enough that she would remember me. The last party was a big group dinner and I didn't really make an opportunity to isolate her and build rapport. It could be a long time before I see her again.


I am thinking of just messaging her on Facebook because I really don't want to have to wait 2 or 3 months until I see her again. Here is what I was gonna send

"It was good seeing you the other night. I wanted to get to talk to you but never really got the chance because of the group dynamic. Its kind of weird to do this on facebook and I would much rather do it in person, but I was wondering if you would like to get a drink next week?"


I feel kind of AFC writting it, but I am trying to think of a way to not seem too Beta sending a facebook message instead of having just asked for her number.

off top of my head:

hey, goin to xxx's house friday night. im gonna see you there right? if not im gonna tag u in half the photos we take