Hey all,

So I got a question about how do you approach and open in and a very loud setting like in a night club or even a bar that has live music going on? Its extremely hard to to just speak or yell louder than the music and half the time they can't hear you anyway. And it seems like just asking her to go somewhere quieter wouldn't work since you can't sit there and talk to her to build comfort or rapport. It might just creep her out asking that right off the bat. Seeing how the HB might be with friends she won't just get up and leave her friends either.

Of course any club or bar has music going on but with music thats just too loud to even hear anything doesn't seem like I would be setting myself up for any kind of success.

Thanks for any input all.
Exbar.

This question is pretty frequently asked. I'd search around for previous answers.

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Will do. Thanks JSmooth.