Maybe one of the bigest newbie opener that exist... ye i know its a pretty simple line but i would like to share my experience with you guys and maybe you can learn with my mistakes haha

Last Thursday Friday and Saturday i did go out to a Night Club called Balmers thats my Main Nightclub i allways go there there are also some other places in my country where i could go too there the ppl are older their like 30+ and i dont like that xd im 20 years old and i dont wanna feel like im the youngest guy in club.

So now about the results.

At Thursday there werent much ppl in the entire club i think maybe 25 i have to admit that of those 25 ppl alot of them were girls.... so i cannot say the problem was that the werent enough girls so what i basicly did was getting some drinks at the bar and tried to smile so much as possible when walking throw the night club there was no one there that i knew so i was standing alone i tried to look good anyway i tried not just to stay in a corner with my drink in my hand and observe all the ppl what i am doing now is when im getting my drink from the bar if i am alone im going to the Smoker Room so no one sees me staying alone. mystery says this is really bad and will lower alot of your value if u just stand there with a drink and observe the other ppl.. well in the smoker room i tried to a open a weird manner lol ^^ i saw some girls that i found hot and i sitet one chair i did not starr at them but from my eye corner i saw that they have a ligther so i tought in my head "cmon do it approach ask her something ask her how are you....." hmm i just cant do it i dont know why but there is a like big wall that i cannot pass throw something is stoping me to try to open a in natural manner so i had an idea im a smoker and i had a ligther in my pants but i tought if i could go to the girl and ask her for a ligther so i can burn my ziggraet maybe she will say something after giving me the ligther: I did go to that 2 Set and i wasnt facing them directly i walked near them and then i talked over the shoulder i was so afraid xddd.... my heart is allways like BOM BOM BOM BOM when im doing this

"I said hei guys question does anyone of you have a ligther?" i also tried to smile so much as possible

Both Girls were shaking their head and said "no we dont have one."

i tought im my head ohhhh u damn liers i saw u some seconds ago that u have one in ur hand but i didt said anything of that i jused thinked it in my head

"then i said "Ok no problem thanks anyway"

and walked away

I have the feeling that when i go to some girls to approach i fear them away its like their scared or they think im threatening im also a foreigner here in switzerland i born here but my parents do have 2 difernt nationalites my father is arabic and my mother is italien so u can see it 100 % on my face that im not a swiss guy maybe their a little racist i dont know...

in the other days ( friday and saturday ) there is nothing new i can tell you i allways go either with the do you have a ligther opener or im asking for the time sometimes i get an answer or get I ligther but i dont know how to continue after the opener it feels like sometimes my head is like emtpty lol i think tomorow im going to buy some new clothes maybe i have to change my avatar a bit SPAM i really only have some random clothes nothing really special i would love to show you a picture of me but SPAM i have my clothed in the washing machine their dirty does anyone of you have some advice ? how can i get better? its the clothes the problem or its my brain? and im just not inteligent enough to get a girl? i would give anything to learn that game =( so bad that u guys are so far away im despertly looking for a wingman that wanna come out with me =( when somone is with me i think i could have more courage to taker higher risks im not going to give up i will go out again but now it has been 6 month and im still staying here alone in my room with no girl i hate to sleep alone when im in my bed and i look next to me there is no one and i feel like im wasting my time and im just stupid =( is there any chat we can talk a bit? why th PUA chat closed? anyone of you would like to talk with me in msn or SPAM if yes send me a pm =) would really appreciete it

Go on google, type in "pua openers" then select an opener that works for you. After that research dhv's and storytelling that will help you with opening and having something to talk abt

Okay best advice I can give do one opener and follow with 5 more right after. The first opener is the hardest and for me its like nails to chalk board. Just unbearable. In the club scene which I do a lot I am very particular with who I approach because I find a lot of women are just not my type and since I am not tall it makes the numbers lower so basically I needed a good opener to start conversation.

I always practice on girls I absolutely don't want so this means the tall ones 6 foot 6 and all the HB 6's and lower. Pretty much field test openers to make sure the ones I do keep will work on the ones I want.

Use openers like ... "Did you guys see the fight outside..(Let them stare and don't expect a reply continue story) yeh these guys were fighting over a guy named (Inset Funny Name). Who fights over (Insert Funny Name). It was crazy these two girls were like pulling each others hair and one of the girls boobs popped out. I am all for a juicy one but this was one of those national geographic boobies.

At this point they laugh or akwardely become silent and at this point you decide to either follow up another story, use kino, NLP or just leave.

Openers just need to open use anything and i came to realize this after doing openers and expecting to get the girl right from the start. It's just grabbing there attention and after that you just go to your next canned set of routines to get attracted.

To get over the fear would mean to approach a women, after the first girl rejects you or really becomes interested go to the next one right away don't wait. You will see like Walking it becomes easier and faster through out the night. Once you approach all the women you realize it wasn't too hard. It was all in your head you then see it becomes something so small. At this point you continue talking the next day to women don't stop because they joy and feeling of interaction of women will make you feel that continued pleasure of success. Rejection is fine but just fine tune your game so it becomes less. Like night game to day game their are different rules.

Day game approaches like "Can i have a lighter" and what time it is are great but in night game it becomes something every man does to talk to women. Use something they don't hear or talk about make them feel as if they are in the best spot in the world and nothing else in the room is better except your voice.

Women go clubbing to get drunk and meet guys why else would they go ... like its no surprise they want to have sex like us men. The women is probably more into it but doesn't want to do it with just anyone. Just think about it this way, time is money so would you rather waste 5 hours thinking or 1 hour doing then 4 hours improving. Just fine tune your game and really in your head say to yourself "FUCK EVERYONE" because in reality no one cares about you and its all about what you do for yourself. If you were to die the only person who would really love you is your family but the other people would just not care or even remember you after a week, so just approach that girl and fuck her brains out!

Thats my 2 and a half cents of wisdom tell me what you think!