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So this happened yesterday, I was going to my dentist in an elevator and this smoking hot blonde chick(think top-model type, I'd say she was 5'9, as I'm 5'10) entered the elevator and stood beside me. I was going to the 8th floor and she eventually got off on the 6th floor. Unfortunately, I did not talk to her at that time because I was involved in an important phone call at that time. During and after my appointment, I could not stop thinking about this chick.

Here's the thing, I going to have my dentist again this coming Wednesday. I'm thinking about approach her floor after my appointment. This is what I think, I had caught a glimpse of her last name so I'm planning to head to her floor and ask her front desk whether there is a Dr. xyz(her) on this floor. Then I will ask if she is in, if she is there and she comes up then I will have to "direct approach her" right there with I'm sure a lot of people around. >>But if my target isn't there at the time of my visit, I was thinking of leaving her a note. I don't know if this sounds determined or desperate so I would need your opinion guys.
I am thinking something like this in the note:

[
Hey Ms xyz,

I wanted to tell you that I think you're absolutely adorable but I couldn't find you. If you're fun and friendly, we should do coffee/ice cream, you do like ice cream, right?

P.s. I like to laugh and smile, hope you do too.
P.p.s Please return my pen!

RaginAsianC (my email)
(date of message)
]


I would just give this to the front desk with a pen clipped to it. I don't have time to wait for her return and I'm not in that area a lot.

Advice will be greatly appreciated if you can answer these questions for me:


1) Would I come off desperate or creepy doing any of these?
2) What are some warm-up exercises I can do to pump myself up for scenario 1 ?(because I don't want to flushed and be intimidated with all those people)
3) Any ideas,comments for the note part, should I leave one ??

I feel I have only about 5 minutes of my time and a cheap pen to lose, any comments/feedback will be greatly appreciated! thanks!

1. I wouldn't leave the note, it does seem a bit desperate to me.
2. Make sure you're being social all day before you go, talk to everyone. It'll get and keep you in a social mood.

I like "leaving note" part. that is so classic. But I won't do that. girls would not mine to read notes like that especially from strangers its sweet for them if it is from person they already know like a friend or boyfriend. I think they want men to approach them personally.

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the thing is, I am not sure whether I'll bump into her again. So if she's not there/unavailable.

What should my Plan B be?

I don't work/live in that area.

Do I do a note?!??

If you don't run into her again plan B should be "Damn, I should have approached her that day I saw her." and move on. There's plenty of other girls out there that are just as hot. and if you don't agree with/believe me, you aren't looking hard enough.

What about trying to get her work e-mail from the receptionist?

Any comments on that?

Step outside yourself and look at what you're doing. I understand she's really hot and you want her, but what you're saying is coming off really desperate. You don't think she'll think that? You saw her in an elevator once and went through all this trouble to contact her? If anything it'll kind of weird her out, I think your only real chance would be if you ran into her again and opened her directly.

I have a few good women friends and I know if someone did this to them, they would find it extremely creepy. Unless you have the charm Goerge Clooney and look like a super model, I don't think it will work. If you ever see her again, game her. Don't go looking for her like some love drunk AFC.

Seriously this is a minor case of stalking! Don't let a girls good looks make you do dumb stuff.

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So drop the approach come next week?

Drop the 1-itis, find another girl?

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Agreed. You had a solid 15 seconds to open in the Elevator with her, you missed your chance. Curse yourself, and move on. It sucks, but a girl that attractive is not going to remember you over that short of a period of being in proximity to her. You didn't make any impression at all.

Switch the scenario. A random girl, you don't remember what she looks like, leaves you a note to eMail her / call her. I, certainly, would never call / eMail back. I'd be flattered, but I wouldn't do it.

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I say fuck it and do the note, i mean what do you have to lose? you dont work in the area or live there so its not like you going to be seeing her alot or anytime soon. If you for sure you will see her again anytime soon then fuck the note and direct approach but if not take the risk and let the chips fall where they may.

Ok, I will omit the note part. So I will focus on "gaming her" if she's available that day. If she isn't there, then tough luck and I have to take it in. I gotta tell myself to learn from this in future-like situations.

Anything you guys suggest I read/do before doing the "approach"?