instead of using routines like one would do at the bar or club, try figuring out an opener on the spot, like yesterday i was at starbucks, and i just simply asked her opinion on what to drink, bc i had never been at starbucks (we have tim hortons in canada, i know cliche) anyways this is how it went
Me: (standing next to her) i have no idea what i want, ive never ever been here before, what do you like (always with a smile)
Her: i like (whatever she likes)
Me: (negging) ew that sounds awful,
than i giggle and asked for an americano
before i left i smiled said nice meeting you, ( held out my hand to shake)
she said her name and smiled,
i than sat down and next thing you know she asked to sit with me
just gotta be natural my man good luck
